Direct and indirect amends - "Just for Today N A Daily Meditation" - #jftguy #jft #justfortoday

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Today's Reading
Just For Today
Daily Meditations for Recovering Addicts
June 3
Direct and indirect amends
"We make our amends to the best of our ability."
Basic Text, p.40
The Ninth Step tells us to make direct amends wherever possible. Our experience
tells us to follow up those direct amends with long-lasting changes in our attitudes
and our behavior-that is, with indirect amends.
For example, say we've broken someone's window because we were angry. Looking
soulfully into the eyes of the person whose window we've broken and apologizing
would not be sufficient. We directly amend the wrong we've done by admitting it and
replacing the window - we mend what we have damaged.
Then, we follow up our direct amends with indirect amends. If we've acted out on
our anger, breaking someone's window, we examine the patterns of our behavior
and our attitudes. After we repair the broken window, we seek to repair our broken
attitudes as well-we try to "mend our ways." We modify our behavior, and make a
daily effort not to act out on our anger.
We make direct amends by repairing the damage we do. We make indirect amends
by repairing the attitudes that cause us to do damage in the first place, helping
insure we won't cause further damage in the future.
Just for today: I will make direct amends, wherever possible. I will also make
indirect amends, "mending my ways," changing my attitudes, and altering my
behavior
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