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How To Be Mysterious - And Make Any Man Desire You
By: Carlos Cavallo

If you ever watched a movie where a woman seduced a man, you may have wondered how to be mysterious like that. How do you make yourself attractive and alluring by being mysterious?

Unfortunately, most women don't learn the ancient art of how to use their Feminine Mystique anymore. It's very rare that girls are taught how to be coy with boys.

And when you grow up, if you haven't learned this, it's very easy to fall into bad habits with guys. You find that you don't have the same kind of seductive power that the glamorous actresses have in the movies.

Well, it's time to change that. In this article we're going to explore how to be mysterious with men. And how to use this mystery to make him desire you - and fall in love with you.

The principles for being mysterious are based in psychology. We are curious about things naturally. And people are some of the most curious things on the planet.

Here are a few things you should definitely NOT do:

DESTROY THE MYSTERY - Don’t Do This #1: Don't drop too many hints
In fact, hints are okay if you aren't hinting too much about your interest in him.

For a while there when I was dating, it was pretty often that the girl I was on a date with would blurt out how interested she was in me. Right after that happened, I felt like the wind had been taken out of my sails.

There was no suspense. And it took all the fun out of my efforts to win her over. I just didn't feel any challenge.

I was bored before I began.

So keep your intentions and interests TO YOURSELF. It's what he doesn't know that makes him interested.

Don’t Do This #2: Don't talk about the future

It's disappointing to have your desires confirmed too early. For the same reason that when a football team is doing really well at the start of a game, that can make the game boring after a while. You want the game to be close to make it interesting.

The same thing is true about relationships. That early time, where things are still up in the air, where you don't really know if the other person is interested in you, is the most exciting part of a developing relationship.

This is where being mysterious comes into your playbook...

Don't confirm his curiosity too early. Keep the possible future a mystery to him where you're concerned.

Don’t Do This #3: Don't Tell Too Much
Sometimes it's very tempting to open your heart and tell him everything about you when you feel a click with him.

Bad idea. It's impulsive and it can really get you into trouble.

And the fact of the matter is that if you have interesting things to share with him, they are best offered at a drip not a pour. This is essential to your mystery.

We are conditioned to get to know someone slowly. That's how we develop a connection. If you tell him too much too soon, you run the risk of him making decisions about you without fully investing his heart yet.

But you also have to give him something to entice his curiosity. (We'll talk about that in the next section.)

Curiosity from him = Mystery from you
What Is A Mysterious Woman?
First of all let's take a moment to discuss what mystery really is. It's simply the ability to entice a man's imagination into thinking about you. Nonstop.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's something I'm sure you're interested in. Every woman intuitively knows that if a guy is thinking about her, he must be interested in her.

And if he keeps thinking about her, he will fall in love with her. It's guaranteed.

You may want to argue for all kinds of flowering notions, such as “letting everyone in your heart and being wide open to everybody.”

This is a surefire recipe for disaster.

Not everyone deserves ALL of you.

The people that are most in demand, that are most loved, limit how much of themselves they give away to other people. They are generous and compassionate, but they are not frivolous with their life force.

Being mysterious is knowing how to tantalize people with their own imaginations.

Starting today, adopt a philosophy of valuing your time and energy above other people's. This will make you happier and healthier and better able to connect and give to others when the time is right.

"Not everyone deserves to have you. It's time to start acting like it." - Carlos Cavallo

Let’s start with the first strategy:

Be Mysterious - Tip 1: The Eyes Have It
There are very few people who aren't aware that ...

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Carlos Cavallo
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How To Be Mysterious
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