Name: Thoughts on Reducing Stress and Anxiety
Uploaded: 2021-06-05T09:56:33+00:00
Duration: 25 min 51 s
Description: Hey friends! How do you manage your stress and anxiety? Link to the Lily Shirt: https://www.bonfire.com/have-a-beautiful-day-lily-design/ This is a video topic I've thought about for a few weeks now.

2 years ago

Hey friends! How do you manage your stress and anxiety?

Link to the Lily Shirt: https://www.bonfire.com/have-a-beautiful-day-lily-design/

This is a video topic I've thought about for a few weeks now. I considered how I face and overcome my own stress. As usual, I don't profess to be an expert on this. People have asked for my thoughts on this topic, and I'm sharing this in the hopes that some people can learn from my experience and mistakes.

I discovered that most of my stress came from doubt and uncertainty. As we try new things—which we SHOULD do sometimes!—we're bound to face this.

An important factor I could have emphasized more in the video is the importance of introspection. Discovering what is causing our stress and mitigating the causes will bring us peace in the long run. Ignoring our stress can sometimes make it worse.

My philosophy on stress management comes down to 3 things:

1.) Accept that some things are out of our control and plan accordingly. Our doubt and uncertainty is almost always paired with a fear of failure. Sometimes the results we want are not the ones that happen. Rather not ignoring this possibility, allow yourself to know that it may happen and ask yourself what you will do if it does. For example, some students face stress in exam season. Nobody wants to fail their finals, but what happens if they do? After the initial onset of panic from this thought, I think our minds start to realize that it's NOT the end of the world. Acceptance of a bad outcome prepares us to adapt and overcome if it becomes reality.

2.) Adopt the things that ARE in our control into a routine. Rather than relying on bursts of motivation, translate your goals into a PROCESS. If you're stressed about your personal fitness, find a routine you can do a few times a week. The example I use in the video is about brushing teeth. Most times, we don't feel inspired to brush our teeth. If we only brushed our teeth when we're motivated, most of us would probably have poor dental health. Keep this process realistic. If you're new to fitness, don't suddenly try to exercise 2-3 hours a day. Keep a CORE to your routine that you can do no matter how busy or tired you get. Commit to the core and then do more when you're able to. Having this realistic process gives us solace because we know we're taking steps towards our goals.

3.) There are times when you may get misidentify if something is in or out of your control. Remember to be forgiving to yourself about these mistakes, and they are part of our learning process.

Hope this helps!

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0:00 Introduction
1:17 Do I Feel Stress?
3:13 What Causes Stress?
6:05 Accept That We Can't Control Everything
9:48 How to Control the Things We Can
21:50 Forgive Yourself When You Don't Know the Difference
25:13 Lily Design
25:33 Outroduction

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