Chemistry in a Relationship - How do you know if you have chemistry with him?

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Chemistry In A Relationship - Do you have it? Find out…
By: Carlos Cavallo

Chemistry is one of those things that almost seems mystical. And if you don't know what you're looking for, you might not know if you have chemistry in relationship.

Everybody talks about chemistry. And it is really important.

If you don't have chemistry in your relationship, chances are your passion will just flicker and die out. You need that special spark between you two keep the flame alive.

It's a bit of an overused metaphor, but it's really true. Without passion, your relationship will feel like buddies or friends, not lovers.

What IS Chemistry?
First, let's talk about what chemistry is. Because the more it's a mystery to you, the more likely you're going to make a mistake.

The simplest definition of chemistry is that it’s physical attraction to another person. It's a definite sexual connection that happens early in the relationship.

There are two different kinds of chemistry: REAL and temporary.
REAL chemistry is the kind of chemistry where you have a genuine click between you. It's when you feel a certain special something that you can't put into words. And even though this means you have a connection, it doesn't mean you're soulmates or you are meant to be together.

In fact, a lot of the time this chemistry can cover up a lot of severe incompatibilities between you.

But REAL chemistry lasts! It won't fade away (at least not for quite some time.) And it's a very necessary part of your long term relationship.

The other kind of chemistry is temporary. This is where you may have been under the influence, or one or both of you was emotionally compromised.
The end result being that you wind up in bed or intimate with each other, and then later on down the road you discover it was just a momentary thing between you. Not real.

This kind of chemistry is only a problem if you try to build a relationship on top of it. This Foundation won't hold up unless you find stronger stuff for the base.

The Dangers of Having TOO MUCH Chemistry
Look, let's be real. Sometimes chemistry pushes you into a decision you didn't mean to make. If you've ever had a one-night stand, you know what I mean.

This can be just as lethal as the temporary kind of chemistry where you are under the influence. You can be under the influence of a passionate connection.

But again, it doesn't mean that your relationship is going to stand the test of time. Sometimes the chemistry can cover up a lot of broken parts.

Another piece of the puzzle is that you need to have emotional chemistry. This is the kind of chemistry that makes you attracted to him not just for the physical part, but for the real spiritual connection between you.

Do you have chemistry in your relationship?
There are definite signs you can look for that tell you if you have chemistry. I will outline them for you here, and you can see if your relationship has any of them.

Just keep in mind that - just because you have a sign of chemistry - this doesn't mean that your relationship is guaranteed to succeed. Or that you should force it to succeed.

Not every relationship should survive. It can be difficult to deal with if you don't know how to handle the emotional hurt of a breakup.

But clinging to a relationship that isn't meant to be is a far worse mistake.

As you might be aware, chemistry is not the same thing as compatibility.

Let's talk about some love and chemistry tips that will help you understand this better:

Love & Chemistry Tip #1: Love Is Not Chemistry
And chemistry is not love.

Getting these two confused is a source of problems for many people. Love is a connection that forges between two people over time.

Chemistry is something you feel pretty quickly. The problem arises when we mistake chemistry as love.

I will talk more about this in a bit.

Love & Chemistry Tip #2: Chemistry Is Sometimes Lust
I have to put this out there. Sometimes physical chemistry is just a great excuse to get physical with someone. It can be hard to resist.

But if you have physical chemistry, you also need to cultivate a certain amount of self-control and self-discipline. Because if you start with physical chemistry, you can very easily turn that into a relationship if you find that you're compatible.

I've had plenty of experiences with physical chemistry turning into very temporary relationships. Mostly because I didn't

For the rest of the info - watch the video!
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Chemistry In A Relationship
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