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Will a Man Change For The Right Woman? Will He Change For YOU?
By: Carlos Cavallo

One of the most common Romance novel plots is the rich, womanizing playboy that finds an amazing woman, realizes the error of his ways, and settles down to be tamed by this amazing woman.

But is this realistic?

Will a man change for the right woman?
Well, we all change over the course of our lives. The truth is that most of us change in ways that are UNPLANNED. We just wake up one day and find we’re 20 pounds heavier…

Or 20 years older…

Or we get divorced and we need to learn more about how to date and make a relationship work again.

Let’s face it, most of us get married way too young.
Because when you’re in your 20s, you can meet people all the time. It’s easy! And if you breakup, no big deal! Cry for a week or two, then go out and find a replacement.

But after your 30s and 40s, things don’t work like that anymore. Finding the right man or the right woman isn’t as easy.

So you realize that you may have to find Mr. Good Enough, and hope you can shape him into something that will work for a relationship.

And you also start to realize that most real life relationships don’t work ANYTHING like a Harlequin romance novel. And sometimes it’s not so easy to get a guy to change into your Prince Charming.

So here are a few tips (and secrets) about making your man change for you.
First of all -

Will a man change for the right woman?

Will he change for the woman he loves?

Well, it all depends on how you imagine your relationship.

If you're picking a man who’s not quite right at the moment, and you’re hoping you can shape him up - sculpt him - into a guy you can be happy with, you might be disappointed.

Let me share a few tips about making a guy change for love...

Change A Guy Tip #1: HOW Does He Need To Change For You?
It’s perfectly understandable to want a man to settle down and be monogamous with you. That’s a healthy change in a relationship that signifies going from just dating to a more committed relationship.

So you have to understand what are the ways you need him to change?

If it's just to be more committed and monogamous and stop dating other people, that's perfectly understandable. Of course you would want that. And if he's a normal healthy guy, and he is attracted to you, that should come naturally.

If it doesn't come naturally, that's where you need to step in and figure it out.

But if you're also needing your man to change in specific ways, I might ask you why you aren't choosing these guys in the first place. Why not simply have a good list of qualities that you're looking for, and then find a man with them?

It's far easier to choose the kind of guy you want right off the bat then it is to have to modify him down the road. That would seem more like laziness to me.

Change Tip #2: WHY Do You Need Him To Change?
This is one of those questions you have to ask yourself. WHY do you need him to change?

Do you have a history of needing men to “change” for you?

Again, if you're not choosing the man you want to begin with, and you're just choosing a guy who conveniently will get into a relationship with you, you're probably reverse engineering your relationship.

Meaning that you're choosing the guy first, and then shoe-horning him into what you want him to be later on.

Change Your Man - Tip #3: He’ll Change A Little - But Not A Lot
You have to understand that we all change. Bit by bit, day by day, we’re all changing.

Unfortunately, this kind of change is usually the UNCONSCIOUS kind. Meaning that we don’t really notice the change that’s going on until we see it in the mirror.

The other part is that no one really wants to change drastically. It feels like we would be sacrificing our identity in some way.

Men are no different about this.

You need to manage your expectations with him. He’s not going to change significantly.

Can He Be Changed? - Tip #4: Don’t make him a project
The fact is that men have a primary need in relationships. And it’s one that most women aren’t aware of.

A man needs -

Find out what he needs in the video!

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Carlos Cavallo
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Will a man change for the right woman
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