Bitchy, Grumpy, Bad Communicator

Some things you should consider if you realize that you just started dating who seems to constantly be bitchy, grumpy and a bad communicator. How to determine if a relationship is salvageable if you are dating a bitchy, grumpy bad communicator.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who has been dating a woman who lives four hours away by plane. I did a phone session with him about a month ago regarding this woman. They’ve seen each other three or four times over the past year, but the last time they were together she was just starting her period and she was bitchy and grumpy. On top of that, she’s a really bad communicator. She would tell him about things that he did that irritated her, but she was unwilling to really open up, talk about it and explain why she was really upset. She’d basically hurl some insults and then be unwilling to elaborate. They did have some really great sex while he was there and things seemed to get better, but right before he was about to leave again, she became nasty once more. He has not heard from her since he left a week or so ago, and he asks my opinion on how he should handle the situation with her.

“If you want to have easy and effortless relationships, you need to have them with people who are great communicators. A great communicator places a really high value on being heard and being understood, as well as making sure they hear and understand the other person as well. Bad communicators tend to be narcissistic, self-centered and only focused on the fact they are upset or feel wronged. They tend to try and punish other people they are in relationship with due to real, imaginary or perceived violations of their self or their dignity. If you are in relationship with or are considering entering into a relationship with someone who gets upset with you, but refuses to explain why they are upset in explicit detail to work things out in a loving manner, then a healthy and effortless relationship with them is impossible. Successful relationships can only thrive and last when both people are not only committed to making them work, but they actually make a mutual effort to lovingly communicate and make them work.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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