Relationships: Living & Speaking Your Truth

The importance of knowing what you want from a relationship and setting healthy boundaries with lovers to ensure that they respect you, communicate in a loving and healthy manner and only bring joy and happiness into your life, instead of drama and conflict.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who is dating multiple women. Recently, his favorite out of all of the women he is dating, asked him if he was dating anyone else. He answered truthfully that he was. He eventually would like to settle down and start a family. However, this woman already has two kids and does not want any more, but she said maybe in five years she would have some more children for him. Her “maybe” is unacceptable to him. Therefore, he does not want to become exclusive with her because he just got divorced last year after a long term marriage, and wants to date around and see what’s out there so the next time he settles down, he makes the right choice for him. She got very upset with him and gave him an ultimatum. She demanded that he become exclusive with her, or she did not want to continue seeing him. He was unwilling to be exclusive with her and she became very nasty, rude, disrespectful and unloving. He told her he did not appreciate the way she was talking to him, but she continued being hostile anyway. He then left the conversation and told her to get in contact with him when she calmed down and was ready to communicate in a loving manner again. He asks my opinion on what he did and said and how he handled the situation.

“Before you start dating and looking for a relationship, you need to know what you’re looking for, why you’re looking for it and what your standards are of what you’re willing and unwilling to tolerate regarding the behavior of the person who you choose to date or be in relationship with. If you are smart, you will make the choice to make your life a drama-free zone. You will only date and associate with people who are comfortable communicating their thoughts, wants, needs, desires and feelings in an open and loving manner. You will set healthy boundaries and will leave conversations, interactions and relationships where the other person becomes belligerent, hostile, non-communicative, rude, condescending, spiteful, hurtful and especially if they become physically violent. You are the gatekeeper to your life and your happiness. Choose wisely the people who you allow into your kingdom.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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From my heart to yours,

Corey Wayne