It's Not All About You!
Why everything that a woman does, says or fails to do and say has nothing to do with you and your relationship, and why focusing on this actually creates unnecessary drama and preventable problems.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who I answered a previous email of his in the video newsletter titled, “My Feminist Man-Hating Girlfriend.” In his latest email you can tell he is still causing some of the same unnecessary drama and problems that he did when he first wrote to me six months ago. Things have gotten better, but once again he incorrectly assumed his girlfriend’s behavior was all about him, and he reacted in a very needy way internally. I call him out on his BS, and he sends in a terse response, and then a second one a week or so later when he realizes I was right. I discuss his first email, the email coaching email and my response, and his subsequent short email replies after, to point out how his own insecurities are still rearing their ugly head in his relationship.
“The purpose of all relationships is that you go there to give, not to possess, control, manipulate or seek validation so you feel better about yourself. The love that you withhold in your relationships is the pain that you carry. When we focus on giving and meeting the other person’s needs because we simply want to contribute to their happiness, that is love. When we focus on what we are getting, what we fail to get or why the other person did not do what we expected, we hold back and the relationship starts to suffer since it becomes about taking instead of giving. When you date a mutual giver and you both focus on meeting each other’s needs just for the sheer joy of making each other happy, this leads to easy and effortless relationships. When the giving is unbalanced, so is the relationship.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:
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You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:
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You can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:
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From my heart to yours,
Corey Wayne
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