Am I the A-hole for canceling my kids birthday? | Diving into human behavior on Reddit

Let's read and react to some Reddit posts where people are asking the good people of Reddit "Am I the A-hole?" with a twist. Can you spot the manipulation in these cases? Let's talk!
#manipulation #AITA

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