Sometimes It's Not Meant To Be
Why some relationships that you think will last don’t, and why some that you don’t think will last do, and how understanding why people come and go in our lives can help you lose your attachments to them so you can enjoy your experiences without unnecessary suffering when they end.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a forty-eight year old female viewer who is heartbroken over being dumped by a man who made her feel more sexy and sexually fulfilled than any other man she has ever been with. She met him via online dating. His twenty-eight year marriage ended four years ago. The last fifteen years of the marriage had no sex at all but he still remained faithful. He dated one woman before her who was long distance but she ended it. He says he really loved her but she was unwilling to move. She met him several months after this previous relationship had ended. Then a few months ago after they had been dating for four months, this ex re-entered the picture and he started talking with her again. That is when she noticed that he was backing away. She has since told him she is not going to be an option for anyone and to call her if he ever changes his mind. She asks my opinion.
“Instead of focusing on the amount of time your relationships last as a barometer of how “successful” they are, you should focus on being the best quality partner you can be and having high quality experiences together. The purpose of life is to enjoy it and to create great memories. Most people try to hold onto relationships that need to end or that should have ended a long time ago. They stay too long simply because they fear the unknown and worry about finding someone of equal or better quality, or they worry that the next person will be worse. The only way the next relationship partner will be worse is if you settle. If you have high standards, then you understand the universal truth that it is simply a matter of time before the next great love of your life comes along, provided you don’t settle by giving up or becoming impatient.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:
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From my heart to yours,
Corey Wayne
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