The Fantasy Of Your Ex
Why it’s highly unlikely that you will stay together with your ex if you get them back because of the fact that once you are back together, their reality never matches the fantasy of who you thought they were or wanted them to be.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who gives us an update on his previous email which I discussed in my video coaching newsletter titled, “I Feel Numb All The Time.” In his first email he was really suffering emotionally because he was ignoring and suppressing his painful emotions and feelings. He has since realized that he was attached to the fantasy of who he thought his ex was and wanted her to be. His latest update details what happened after he walked away and she later started reaching out to him about two months later. They started dating and hooking up again for about three weeks before the same problems that led to their first breakup became a problem once again. He shares what he did and said to get her back, what he learned from getting her back and why he chose to not stay with her long-term once he finally got her back.
“When it comes to getting an ex back or rekindling a romance that did not work the first time around, the overwhelming majority of couples do not stay together long-term. Why? It’s never so much that we miss the person we lost, but instead it’s more about the fact we are emotionally attached to the fantasy of who we thought they were or wanted them to be. Human beings choose to do or buy things based upon emotion and they use logic and reason to justify their decisions. It’s always best to look at the pros and cons of any personal, professional or purchase decision based upon the facts, stats, history, actions and reality, instead of letting our emotions blind us to reality. We can ignore reality temporarily, but we can never escape the consequences of ignoring reality.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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Corey Wayne
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