You’re Being Too Cocky
Why your texts aren’t funny and why too much cockiness leads to rejection.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a self-professed millennial who set a date with his former ex-girlfriend after she contacted him a year after their breakup. She even asked him when they could go out for a drink. However, instead of just setting the date and staying off the phone, he decided to give her all of his social media accounts and proceeded to carry on numerous conversations prior to their date on various forms of social media. Then two days before the date she told him he was being too cocky and canceled the date. He asks my opinion on where he went wrong and why it wasn’t just being too available and being too cocky which obviously came off as arrogance and what he should have done differently.
“Women are attracted to men who are charming, playful and who don’t take themselves too seriously. Trying to be too cocky and funny via texting, messaging apps and social media, can often backfire and be taken the wrong way. You sell people on your awesomeness in person, not over the phone or through digital communication. The more you talk, text and message prior to dates you have set in advance, the higher the likelihood that you will talk your dates out of liking you and canceling your date. All good salesmen know that the phone and digital communication are to set appointments to sell your prospect in person, not to get to know someone, give out information or to make them like you more. Women are attracted to mysterious men. Guys who are always available to chitchat are boring, predictable and have nothing going on in their lives. That is the opposite of a high value man who is focused on building his life and empire.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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