The Jerk Who Has No Self-Awareness On Dates

How you can avoid being a jerk that has no self-awareness on dates to turn women on instead of off.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss a painful email to read from a guy who has taken his attempts at being cocky, playful and charming too far, and comes off as a total jerk who lacks self-awareness. He was on a date with a woman who seemed to really like him at first. That was until his disastrous attempt at humor actually made his date cry and leave while he sat there with no self-awareness as to why she got upset and left. To make matters worse, he invited another woman over that he had also met on the bumble dating app that same evening, and a short time later she also left upset after he displayed the same clueless behavior and was a total jerk. It’s a good email to see how a lack of self-awareness, sensory acuity and taking being cocky and funny too far and actually coming across as being mean can ruin your chances with your dating prospects.

“Women love men who are playful and fun but also who are humble and don’t take themselves too seriously. There is a fine line between using playful humor that elicits a good laugh and good feelings and being mean in a way that tries to diminish the other person through condescending put downs. A good strategy that works well to create rapport and communicate that you enjoy making jokes at your own expense and don’t take yourself too seriously is the wound and then heal strategy. The wounding is the revealing of something that is a funny shortcoming of yours. The healing is that you have embraced your funny shortcoming and are comfortable with it and invite others to crack a joke at your expense. This makes you relatable and makes others feel comfortable revealing funny shortcomings of their own that they have embraced and accepted. When you embrace and learn to love and accept your own shortcomings and flaws, no one else can use them against you.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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