Why He Acts Hot And Cold - Is He Playing Games?

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There are a log of reasons why he acts hot and cold with you...

And almost NONE of those reasons are because he's INTENTIONALLY playing head games with you.

REASON: You Reversed The Chase
Imagine you're a lion on the African plains.

You're stalking your prey, and you're dreaming of a nice afternoon of munching on antelope...

You crouch through the weeds and get closer...

Just as you're about to sprint after your prey -

The antelope turns to you and sees you! It smiles manically, then sprints after... YOU!

"Hey!" the antelope yells at you. "I've been waiting for you to show up!"

She's now running at you full speed.

"Want to have lunch with me? I'm TASTY! Wait til your cubs meet me, too, this is going to be SO MUCH FUN!!!"

The lion pulls back and thinks, "Hey... WHOAH... wait a second here. This is really weird, dude."

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"No thanks, I'm actually vegan...yeah, that's it..."

"I wanted lunch, but now this suddenly doesn't seem right. Uh, maybe I'm not so hungry after all."

His confusion turns to downright fear as he sees this crazed buffet wildly coming at him with Charlie Manson eyes. In moments, the normal order of things has been flipped.

Kinda crazy, huh?

But that's what happens to a guy when the woman he was once keenly interested in courting is now running after him. Full bore, no stops.

Men chase...
Women let him chase her.
That's been the order of things for eons.

Men have the demand. We desire what women have - the sex, the soft lovely curves, the warm nurturing we can't get from anywhere else.

And women have the supply.

We know it, and we actually like it this way. We LIKE being told "No, not now" when we're trying to get you into bed.

You can say: "Wait for a few more dates."

You're not saying "no way" - just not now.

A man's run away instinct is primal and automatic when women reverse the chase. When women started flipping the script on me, I would run for the hills. It was unconscious.

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That's biology for ya...

I just knew it didn't feel right. After all, if she is chasing me, how could she have the goods I wanted?

Yous see - most men will not intentionally lead you on or use you for sex.

Really!

It just so happens that when a man becomes even slightly ambivalent, most women will freak out and panic. She then starts the reversal that inevitably seals the relationship's doom.

Don't let the natural dynamic get messed up like this!

No matter what you hear about in opinionated articles, men don't want you to chase them.

That's not what "equality" and empowerment is about. We're not "threatened" by women's equality in any way.

We just know it's not right when a woman is doing the chasing. It's never attractive for a woman to take up the man's role in the natural dynamic of love.

It's your guy's job to reach out and connect with you - then you can reciprocate.

Fore more

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