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Don't let things get TOO easy in your relationship.

Make your man worry about losing you for once - TIP : Make him wonder...
Our imaginations are a fertile playground... It's easy to make someone wonder what you're up to.

Sometimes we do this by mistake... We forget an important date or event - or the time of some friend's party. And our absence is noted.

So right now I'm telling you that you need to intentionally forget your man a little bit. And make him wonder what's going on with you. It reminds him that he's not the be all, end all of your life.

For example, texting. Yeah, you know you do it.

But why?

Because texting is to a woman what ESPN is to a guy...

A way to feel connected. In touch with the "score" - if you will - of your priorities.

For men, that might be his pro football or basketball team.

For women, it's your relationships.

And the score is ESSENTIAL.

If he sends you a text, don’t answer him right away… or at all.

If you don’t answer him, you will be amazed at how fast he'll be calling you and pestering you - wondering what's going on - what changed? He'll freak out that your feelings for him might be changing.

Make yourself a challenge again by not being so clingy and responsive.

(Remember the coy game you played when you first met him? How you played it extra cool when you first started seeing him? Yeah. THAT stuff.)

Another example: Buy yourself flowers and put them right out there on the table. If he asks who got them for you, you can just avoid answering. Or play with him a little and say it was some hot actor that keeps calling on you.

The less you say, the more attention you'll get from him.

Make your man worry about losing you for once - TIP: Keep your boundaries...

What are your boundaries?

Women are much more flexible with their personal boundaries. I believe this is because a woman's identity typically includes her many
relationships. So having more fluid and relaxed boundaries makes it easier to feel the quality of your relationships.

Men are a bit different. We are more protective of our personal boundaries. We are quick to get angry if a friend tries to inconvenience us or take advantage of us.

So what you should do is to shake up the status quo by putting up some personal boundaries that remind him that you won't be walked on, you won't be taken advantage of, and you won't let him run your life.

Here are a few ways to do this:

Lock your phone...
With a code he does not get to have. Yeah, you might think that it's good to show that you "have no secrets," but not with your phone. Let his imagination run wild with the reasons why. (If he thinks some guy is chasing you, that only works to help you, by the way.)

Are you hard to get?

DON'T DO IT! Keep some private times in your life.

Turn your phone off at night.

Look, we're big folks here, right? The fact is that about 8 out of 10 people now sleep with their phones. Some keep it under their pillow!

What the...? Are you hoping he will booty call you at 3:14 AM? The cold harsh truth is that women who understand men - and attract men - don't pay that close attention to their phones.

Why? Because they're too busy going out with guys!

Turn your phone off - get at least 6 to 8 good hours of sleep, and you'll be right as rain in the morning. And a whole lot less edgy.

Make your man worry about losing you for once - TIP: Get Him To Fantasize About You...
The single best way you can make a man focus on you is to -

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How To Make Him Worry About Losing You
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