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Pareto, dating, and mating: women prefer “beta” males even for one night stands, definitely for long-term relationships. This is why Friends with Benefits (FwB) is the dominant model for casual sex – not hookups. Sex among people younger than 25 is on the decline: the number of sexual partners and the frequency of sex is lower than among previous generations. Not hypergamy, but hypogamy: women more educated and earn as much as men. Women consume more pornography than men – but text-based, not visual. Studies in the past 40 years have upended everything we thought we knew about female sexuality in the West. A few nuggets: Women orgasm mostly from digital or oral clitoral stimulation. Penetration doesn’t do it for them. Women are likelier to cheat during estrus (ovulation). Women are three times more likely to be lesbian than men are to be homosexual. Women prefer good looking men for one night stands and men with a stable income for long-term relationships. No wonder sexlessness in couples (21%) and infidelity (45%) are off the charts. The numbers are likely massively underreported. The two main sexual fantasies of women are: to be kidnapped and raped and to participate in an orgy or a gangbang. But only about 8% act on their fantasies. Women desire casual sex (though not as much as men do), but are deterred by considerations of risk, social stigma, and the orgasm gap. Removing these obstacles increases their willingness to bed even total strangers. Most younger women have sex usually when they are drunk. Women feel empowered and desired in group sex and, having tried it, want it more than men. Women tire of the sexual monotony of monogamy sooner than men. Increasingly, women are the ones who avoid committed relationships. The majority of divorces are initiated by women. A majority of female singles turn celibate, but a substantial minority (about 20%) lead a life of hookups, dating, and group sex (sex parties). Far fewer women are getting married or having - far fewer - children. The replacement rate in all industrialized countries is unmet. Populations are aging and declining rapidly everywhere from the UK to Russia to China. Women place studies, career, travel, and having fun with friends way above having a committed relationship even as a majority of them harbor a nebulous goal of “getting married one day”. Few mention children even as an aspiration. About one third of women are lifelong singles and another one sixth are lesbians. Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...