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Being married but feeling that your wife hates you is a challenging and often painful experience for a husband. However, with the right approach, understanding, and dedication, it’s possible to turn things around. This article will provide strategies for improving your relationship, particularly focusing on the scenario where the animosity seems to stem from your wife – even if your wife has said that she hates you. FREE mini-course to save your marriage at https://myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/ Accompaning article at https://myexbackcoach.com/what-if-my-wife-hates-me/ On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RkgusN9lXqc

In this video, Coach Lee discusses what your ex thinks, feels, and experiences in the relief stage, which is the first stage after they broke up with you. Learn more about this stage and why your ex is doing the things that they are doing. SUBSCRIBE to Coach Lee! Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk Get Coach Lee's FREE min-course to save your marriage at https://myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/

Get my FREE mini-course on saving your marriage at https://myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/ Do you suspect that your spouse might be having an affair, a.k.a. unfaithful but can't put your finger on why? Are you feeling uneasy about changes in your relationship? Do you suspect that your spouse might be unfaithful but can't put your finger on why? In this video, we delve into the subtle signs and clues that may indicate your spouse is having an affair. Infidelity can be a painful and challenging issue to address in a relationship. It's often shrouded in secrecy, making it hard to identify. However, there are certain behavioral patterns and changes that can serve as potential indicators. This video aims to shed light on these signs with sensitivity and care, helping you understand what might be happening behind the scenes in your relationship. Navigating the complexities of a relationship where infidelity is suspected is incredibly challenging. This video is here to guide you through understanding and handling these situations with the compassion and support you deserve. On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HvSAJWWTOw8

Get Coach Lee's FREE mini-course to save your marriage at https://myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/ In this video, "How To Get Your Spouse Back," I delve into practical and thoughtful strategies for those looking to reconnect with a spouse who has drifted away. My focus is on creating positive change and fostering a renewed connection in your relationship. Here's a breakdown of the key points I cover: Stop the Bleeding: Learn the crucial first step of refraining from begging or pleading with your spouse. I explain why maintaining dignity and self-respect is vital in this process and how it sets the foundation for any potential reconciliation. Seek Small Positive Interactions: Discover how to initiate small, positive interactions with your straying spouse. This segment provides tips on how to create meaningful yet non-intrusive moments that can slowly rebuild the bond between you two. Accompanying article at https://myexbackcoach.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back/ On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bokI9b_rdEU

Though it’s often a complaint we hear from a wife that her husband won’t talk, we often receive a request for help from a husband who says, “My wife won’t talk to me.” Sometimes the husband says, "My wife won't talk to me," and means that his wife only interacts with him by small talk. In other words, the two don’t seem to “have much to talk about” as people say. Other times, it's the dreaded silent treatment. In this video, relationship expert Coach Lee discusses some ways that this situation can be improved. See the accompanying articles at: https://www.marriageradio.com/my-wife-wont-talk-to-me/, https://myexbackcoach.com/my-wife-wont-talk-to-me/, and https://myexbackcoach.medium.com/my-wife-wont-talk-to-me-22575246e114

Coach Lee answers the question, "Should you ever break no contact?" To get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit, go to https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk To get Coach Lee's free mini-course on saving a marriage, see https://myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/ This video is also at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zVjV24OpuoQ

In this insightful and transformative video, viewers are taken on an explorative journey to understand the complexities, challenges, and potential solutions for revitalizing and strengthening a marriage. The video commences with a serene and welcoming introduction, inviting audiences of all backgrounds and experiences to engage in an open and honest dialogue about the realities of marriage. On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AxANxCM3E3A

Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at http://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk Coach Lee explains how sometimes an ex can want you but still not come back to the relationship or it could take a long time. Though this is not always a popular topic, Coach Lee is honest and explains what you could be up against while also explaining what can bring your ex back in spite of this challenge. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at http://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk Video on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAVkGbIM-co Subscribe to Coach Lee!

If your spouse has left you or wants to leave and you share children with him or her, should you use the no contact rule? Coach Lee explains in this video. Get Coach Lee's FREE mini-course on saving a marriage at https://myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/ Video on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flXMJxzIDH0&t=2s

The Emotional Turmoil of Separation: Second Thoughts, Doubts, and Longing Separation, especially when it involves ending a long-term marital commitment, is rarely a simple decision. The complexity of emotions, shared experiences, and deep bonds formed over the years make such decisions particularly challenging. Consequently, it is not uncommon for a spouse who initiates the separation to experience second thoughts, doubts, and even miss the spouse they left. The narrative that the "leaver" is always sure of their decision or never looks back is far from the truth. The Weight of Second Thoughts When a person decides to leave their spouse, the reasons might seem crystal clear at the moment. Perhaps there were chronic issues like disagreements, dissatisfaction, or even more severe problems like infidelity. However, as days turn into weeks and weeks into months, the initial clarity can become clouded by memories of happier times, the shared laughter, the milestones celebrated together, and the challenges overcome as a team. The negative aspects that prompted the separation can, at times, be overshadowed by these golden memories, leading to second thoughts. Moreover, humans are inherently averse to loss. The loss aversion theory, a foundational concept in behavioral economics, suggests that people feel the pain of losing something more acutely than the pleasure of gaining something of equal value. In the context of relationships, leaving a spouse often confronts the individual with a profound sense of loss. This realization can trigger second thoughts, making one wonder if they made the right choice or if things could have been resolved. The Creeping Doubts Doubt can be a constant companion after a major life decision, and separation is no exception. A spouse who has chosen to leave might frequently ask themselves: "Did I try hard enough?", "Were my reasons valid, or were they impulsive?", "Could we have salvaged our relationship with counseling or external help?". These questions can plague the mind, especially during moments of solitude. Furthermore, seeing their left spouse move on or find happiness can amplify these doubts. The natural human tendency to compare oneself with others can lead to thoughts like, "Did I give up too soon?" or "Were they the better half in our relationship?". Such doubts can be incredibly tormenting, keeping the person in a state of emotional limbo. The Longing and Missing Beyond second thoughts and doubts, there's an emotional element that's often hard to shake off - the genuine missing and longing for the spouse left behind. Relationships, especially marriages, are a tapestry of countless shared moments, both monumental and mundane. The comforting routine of morning coffee chats, the silent understanding after a tough day, the shared jokes, or the simple joy of mutual hobbies – these become irreplaceable. As humans, we are wired for connection. The oxytocin released when bonding with a partner creates feelings of warmth, trust, and intimacy. Even if a relationship has its problems, the oxytocin-driven bond doesn't disappear overnight. This biochemical connection, combined with shared memories, can lead to intense feelings of missing the departed spouse. Moreover, certain triggers, like a song, a place, or even a specific date, can bring back a flood of memories, intensifying the feeling of longing. Special occasions, like anniversaries or mutual friends' gatherings, can be particularly challenging, as they highlight the absence of the left spouse, making their presence deeply missed. Navigating the Emotional Labyrinth It's essential to acknowledge that having second thoughts, doubts, or missing the spouse does not necessarily indicate a mistake. Emotions are multifaceted, and feelings of longing or doubt don't invalidate the reasons that led to the separation in the first place. On the other side, the spouse who was left (chose the separation) should also recognize that their partner's potential doubts or feelings of missing don't always translate into a desire for reconciliation. It's a manifestation of the intricate emotional web that relationships weave over time. Video on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8atJSHZrTtg

In a candid and introspective session, renowned relationship coach, Coach Lee, revisits one of the pillars of his coaching advice – The No Contact Rule. After years of advocating for its effectiveness, he takes a step back and poses the challenging question: "Was I Wrong About No Contact?" Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://MyExBackCoach.com/ebk Get Coach Lee's FREE Mini-Course on Saving a Marriage at https://myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/ Throughout this video: 🔸 Coach Lee dives into the genesis of the No Contact philosophy, recalling the early days of its introduction to his coaching arsenal. 🔸 Reflects on success stories, failures, and the in-betweens that have shaped his understanding of this method. 🔸 Ponders over the possibility of having misjudged or oversimplified its application for diverse relationship scenarios. 🔸 Invites feedback from the community, opening the floor for genuine conversations and stories about real-life experiences with the No Contact Rule. Whether you've been a long-time subscriber or are just tuning in, join Coach Lee in this journey of reflection and discovery. Your insights might just reshape the future of relationship recovery! SUBSCRIBE To Coach Lee here: http://youtube.com/c/myexbackcoach?app=desktop;sub_confirmation=1 This video is on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8Jifi3vpHk

MY SPOUSE SAYS THEY DON'T LOVE ME ANYMORE In "What To Do When Your Spouse Says They Don't Love You Anymore," renowned relationship expert Coach Lee delves into the emotional turmoil and heartache that comes when a partner utters those dreaded words. This enlightening video not only offers a compassionate understanding of the emotions at play but also provides actionable steps and strategies to navigate this challenging time. Coach Lee draws from years of experience to guide viewers on how to: -Process and understand their own emotions. -Approach the conversation with empathy and patience. -Evaluate the underlying causes and triggers for this revelation. -Reinvent the relationship dynamics and reignite the flame. -Seek professional help and support when needed. Watch the full video on YouTube at https://youtu.be/DY5foSOVuPo Get Coach Lee's FREE mini-course at https://myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/

Want your ex to come to you after they broke up with you? Coach Lee explains how you can do that. Get information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/ebk Breakups can be painful and challenging, leaving you longing for the connection you once had with your ex-partner. While there is no guarantee that every relationship can be revived or that your ex will come back to you, it is possible to create an opportunity for your ex to return if the circumstances are right. This video will provide you with some valuable insights and tips on how to let an ex come back to you after a breakup. Winning back an ex after a breakup is a delicate and nuanced process. While there are no guarantees, implementing the strategies discussed in this article can help create an environment where your ex may consider returning to the relationship. Remember, the ultimate goal is not just to get your ex back but to build a healthier and stronger connection based on mutual understanding, respect, and personal growth. Immediately following a breakup, it is crucial to implement the "no contact" rule. This means refraining from contacting your ex in any way whatsoever, allowing both parties to heal and gain perspective. It also creates an air of mystery around you and allows your ex to start missing you which they cannot do if you won't leave him or her alone. Demonstrate personal growth by making positive changes in your life. This can include improving your physical well-being, updating your wardrobe, or pursuing new interests. These changes not only boost your self-esteem but also make you more appealing to your ex. While it's tempting to reach out and try to rekindle the relationship, it's essential to give your ex the space they need. Respect their decision and allow them time to process their feelings. Constantly pursuing or pressuring them will push them further away. Use the time apart to focus on yourself. Engage in activities that bring you joy, invest in personal growth, and cultivate self-confidence. Rediscover your passions, set new goals, and work towards becoming the best version of yourself. This self-improvement will not only benefit you but also make you more attractive to your ex and others. On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BlI6bzDNBeA Subscribe to Coach Lee! On Instagram at https://instagram.com/realcoachlee

Can optimism help with anxiety? Yes! In today's fast-paced and uncertain world, anxiety has become increasingly prevalent. It affects millions of people worldwide, interfering with their daily lives and overall well-being. While anxiety can be a challenging condition to manage, cultivating a positive outlook and embracing optimism can play a vital role in alleviating its effects. This article explores the relationship between optimism and anxiety, highlighting how adopting an optimistic mindset can lead to improved mental health and a more fulfilling life. On YouTube at https://youtu.be/a70y0TUtYpw

Coach Lee answers the question, "Is the No Contact Rule the only way to get an ex back after a breakup?" Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk There are many good reasons for using no contact and it's for more than only getting an ex back but is also best for you after a breakup. The no contact rule is a strategy that is often used after a breakup or during a period of intense conflict in a relationship. It involves cutting off all contact with the other person for a certain amount of time. While it may seem simple on the surface, there are a number of factors to consider when implementing the no contact rule. Is no contact the only way to get your ex back? The first thing to keep in mind is that the no contact rule should be a deliberate decision. It's important to take some time to reflect on your goals and motivations before cutting off contact. Are you trying to win the other person back? Are you hoping to move on and start a new chapter in your life? Whatever your reasons, it's important to be honest with yourself about what you hope to achieve through the no contact rule. Once you've decided to implement the no contact rule, it's important to stick to it. This can be difficult, especially if you have strong feelings for the other person or if you are used to talking to them on a regular basis. However, breaking the no contact rule can be counterproductive and prevent a runion or rekindling of the relationship. During the no contact period, it's important to take care of yourself. This might involve focusing on your physical health, such as by getting regular exercise and eating a healthy diet. It could also mean taking care of your emotional well-being, such as by spending time with supportive friends or engaging in activities that bring you joy. The key is to focus on your own needs and to use the time away from the other person to heal and grow. One of the benefits of the no contact rule is that it can provide clarity and perspective. When you are no longer in regular contact with the other person, it can be easier to step back and see the relationship in a new light. This can help you to identify patterns of behavior that may have contributed to the breakup or conflict, and to consider how you might approach future relationships differently. Subscribe to Coach Lee! Another benefit of the no contact rule is that it can help to reestablish boundaries. There are also important reasons for using the no contact rule if you truly want your ex back and are willing to be disciplined enough to stick to it. It's worth noting that the no contact rule may not be appropriate for everyone. For example, if you have children with the other person, you may need to maintain some level of contact in order to co-parent effectively. Coach Lee has a video about this called "Strategic Contact." Similarly, if you work with the other person or are part of the same social circle, it may be difficult to completely cut off contact. In these cases, it's important to find ways to manage contact in a way that is healthy and productive for both parties. No contact also stops the continuing development of limerence tolerance which is where the chemicals and hormones associated with limerence no longer have the same impact. Continuing contact can make it even worse and delay or completely prevent it from ever coming back. In summary, the no contact rule can be a helpful strategy for those who are struggling with the aftermath of a breakup or intense conflict. It involves cutting off all contact with the other person for a certain amount of time or permanently. While it can be challenging to implement, the no contact rule can provide clarity and perspective, help to reestablish boundaries, allow for personal growth and healing, and help two people consider getting back together after some healing has taken place. On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xwE7oK5u0KM

Coach Lee shares the best relationship advice that you've never heard. In the five tips Coach Lee shares, you'll learn from his twenty-two years in relationship coaching. Most of the advice and tips on the list aren't talked about often if ever but can help relationships to be strong and to survive life's challenges. Apply the lessons from this video and your relationship will be a better one because of it. Get more information on Coach Lee's Support Community at http://LoveDynamics.com. On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZV0B0OozYI0

Coach Lee answers the question, how to know if your ex is still in love with you. Just because someone broke up with you does not mean that they are no longer in love with you or that such love is permanently lost. In this video, you'll learn what to look for to help you know if your ex is still in love with you. Coach Lee mentioned two important resources in this video and they are the Emergency Breakup Kit which you can get at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk as well as the Support Community at https://LoveDynamics.com.

Get the Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk. Learn ways and how an ex tests you after a breakup and what you should do about it if you want to get back together and reunite with your ex. If your ex is testing you after a breakup, it's important to be aware of what's going on and to respond in a way that feels healthy and appropriate for you. You don't have to engage with their tests if you don't want to, and it's okay to set boundaries and protect your own emotional well-being. It's not uncommon for an ex to test you after a breakup so be aware. https://www.thetoptens.com/youtube/417097/

Coach Lee speaks to those who feel that their ex is never coming back after breaking up with them. If you are struggling after being broken up with and fear that your ex is gone for good, this message is for you! Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emk. Subscribe to Coach Lee! On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SXXRFLN6Ic

Coach Lee explains how you can show your ex that you have changed if you are using the no contact rule. It can seem difficult to show your ex anything if you are not in contact with them, but there are important things to consider and ways that you can show them that you have changed even if you aren't in contact with them. Timing, however, is key in revealing these changes and there is definitely a right way and a wrong way to show them. Coach Lee shows you how to show them in a way that brings about the most attraction from them to you. It's important to know that right after the breakup, your ex doesn't care if you change or want to change because they just want to get away from you. That's why it's important to be in no contact and if you are doing that, you are still doing the right thing even if you have changes that you need to make for yourself and for hope of reuniting the relationship. Get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk

Coach Lee explains what your ex needs in order to come back to you and the relationship. Often times people don't understand the dynamics of a breakup that cause someone to continue to want to be broken up. It's important to understand how your ex sees you and how they feel in order to have the best chance to reunite with them. There are some cases where moving on is best, but there are also many times when a broken relationship can be restored. Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emk Next video: https://rumble.com/v265ouc-what-caused-my-exs-feelings-to-fade.html SUBSCRIBE to Coach Lee!

Learn what caused your ex's feelings to fade to the point that he or she wanted to break up with you. Many people don't understand that feelings fading had a cause and that, if the cause (or causes) are understood, reunion is possible and the fading phenomenon can be prevented in the future with your ex or with someone else. What does it mean when an ex says that their feelings faded? Why did your ex's feelings fade? That is what Coach Lee discusses in this video. Get information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/ and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-marriage-kit/ Video on Limerence mentioned in this video: https://rumble.com/vg87bd-what-is-limerence.html or at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uxtDBgc9Dws

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This is what makes an ex change their mind and want to get back together again. Most people don't understand this concept and struggle to get their ex back or to determine if a reunion is likely. Coach Lee explains what can cause an ex to change their mind and heart so that they want to rekindle the relationship with you. Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoach.com/ebk On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v8rRCEMpV2M

Coach Lee discusses your ex's experience while you are using the no contact rule after the breakup. The dumper's experience during no contact is an important concept to understand if you having been broken up with and want your ex back. If you don't want your ex back, then it's of no interest to you, but if you do want the possibility of reuniting, it's important to know what is going on so that you don't interrupt the important process that they go through during this time because if you respond with dignity, strength, and maturity, you have a good chance of getting back together with them is that is truly what you want. Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk Subscribe to Coach Lee so that you'll be notified when there are more videos like this one. Also see Coach Lee's other channels: Anxiety Peace: http://youtube.com/@UCyE_SDnJbEvJxGbM7OZr6_w Stress Be Gone: http://youtube.com/@UC47Pc-qyjYnU1hvjSO7eyDA Marriage Radio: http://youtube.com/@UCQFHAhWeoWQRYVeSafgB-zQ