When Your Ex Finally Breaks
Coach Lee describes what often happens when your ex finally breaks from no contact and wants you back.
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Will My Ex Change Their Mind About Breaking Up With Me?
Reflecting on the question, "Will my ex change their mind about breaking up with me?" we recognize that the answer hinges not only on your ex's characteristics but also significantly on your actions and reactions. The dynamics of the breakup and the nature of your relationship prior to it play a pivotal role in influencing their decision to reconsider. Understanding your ex's self-perception is crucial. If they exhibit traits of narcissism or show tendencies of being self-absorbed, viewing themselves as superior and deserving of adulation, it's vital to consider whether this relationship aligns with your values and self-respect. In such cases, the breakup might indeed be a disguised blessing, urging you to seek a partner who cherishes mutual respect and equality in a relationship.
Your ex's perception of the relationship is another critical factor. Were they content and fulfilled, or did they feel stagnation and a lack of growth? Relationships thrive on progression and deepening commitments, be it cohabitation, engagement, or planning for a family. A healthy relationship fosters mutual benefit, where both partners feel valued, supported, and nurtured. If your ex reminisces about the relationship with fondness and misses the connection, this could indicate a higher chance of them reconsidering their decision.
Examining how your ex viewed you as a partner is equally important. Authenticity in your actions and expressions of love and affection is key. Overdoing gestures or declarations of love, even if well-intentioned, might come across as insincere or overwhelming. It's about striking a balance between expressing genuine feelings and respecting the space and dynamics of the relationship. Feeling respected, supported, and genuinely loved are fundamental to any relationship. Any signs of imbalance or feelings of rejection, be it emotional or physical, can cause significant harm to the relationship's fabric.
The concept of allowing your ex to experience the absence of your presence cannot be overstated. Implementing the 'no contact rule' is not just about physical distance; it’s about demonstrating your strength and independence, challenging their preconceived notions about your inability to move on. This period of separation is crucial for them to realize the possibility of actually losing you, which can be a potent catalyst for change.
Finally, reigniting attraction is a complex but vital aspect. Post-breakup, attraction levels are usually at their lowest. The focus should be on rebuilding this attraction by showing your strength, independence, and positivity. Remember, attraction is not just physical; it encompasses emotional connection, mutual respect, and the shared joy of being in each other's company. The journey of getting your ex to reconsider is intricate and multifaceted. It requires a thoughtful blend of introspection, strategic actions, and patience. Whether they will change their mind is uncertain, but ensuring you play your part impeccably will either pave the way for a renewed relationship or provide you with the closure and strength to move forward.
Podcast at https://coachlee.podbean.com/e/will-my-ex-change-their-mind-about-the-breakup/
Accompanying article at https://myexbackcoach.com/will-my-ex-change-their-mind-about-breakup/
On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jvEnHIwxNek
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When Your Spouse Says They Don't Love You Anymore
MY SPOUSE SAYS THEY DON'T LOVE ME ANYMORE
In "What To Do When Your Spouse Says They Don't Love You Anymore," renowned relationship expert Coach Lee delves into the emotional turmoil and heartache that comes when a partner utters those dreaded words.
This enlightening video not only offers a compassionate understanding of the emotions at play but also provides actionable steps and strategies to navigate this challenging time. Coach Lee draws from years of experience to guide viewers on how to:
-Process and understand their own emotions.
-Approach the conversation with empathy and patience.
-Evaluate the underlying causes and triggers for this revelation.
-Reinvent the relationship dynamics and reignite the flame.
-Seek professional help and support when needed.
Watch the full video on YouTube at https://youtu.be/DY5foSOVuPo
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How To Get Your Ex To Come To You After A Breakup
Want your ex to come to you after they broke up with you? Coach Lee explains how you can do that.
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Breakups can be painful and challenging, leaving you longing for the connection you once had with your ex-partner. While there is no guarantee that every relationship can be revived or that your ex will come back to you, it is possible to create an opportunity for your ex to return if the circumstances are right. This video will provide you with some valuable insights and tips on how to let an ex come back to you after a breakup.
Winning back an ex after a breakup is a delicate and nuanced process. While there are no guarantees, implementing the strategies discussed in this article can help create an environment where your ex may consider returning to the relationship. Remember, the ultimate goal is not just to get your ex back but to build a healthier and stronger connection based on mutual understanding, respect, and personal growth.
Immediately following a breakup, it is crucial to implement the "no contact" rule. This means refraining from contacting your ex in any way whatsoever, allowing both parties to heal and gain perspective. It also creates an air of mystery around you and allows your ex to start missing you which they cannot do if you won't leave him or her alone.
Demonstrate personal growth by making positive changes in your life. This can include improving your physical well-being, updating your wardrobe, or pursuing new interests. These changes not only boost your self-esteem but also make you more appealing to your ex.
While it's tempting to reach out and try to rekindle the relationship, it's essential to give your ex the space they need. Respect their decision and allow them time to process their feelings. Constantly pursuing or pressuring them will push them further away.
Use the time apart to focus on yourself. Engage in activities that bring you joy, invest in personal growth, and cultivate self-confidence. Rediscover your passions, set new goals, and work towards becoming the best version of yourself. This self-improvement will not only benefit you but also make you more attractive to your ex and others. On YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BlI6bzDNBeA
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Logan Crawford Interviews Coach Lee
Coach Lee was interviewed by Emmy award-winning anchor, Logan Crawford. Mr. Crawford is an actor and reporter with recurring roles on such hit TV shows as: "Blue Bloods," "The Blacklist," "House of Cards," "Person of Interest," and "Daredevil."
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How To Make Someone Want You Again
Coach Lee reveals how you can make someone want you again after they broke up with you.
This video is on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wg-SFvnFSBQ
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Attachment Styles, Breakups, and the No Contact Rule
Coach Lee discusses attachment styles after a breakup and how someone's attachment style could respond to the No Contact Rule.
How do secure attachment styles respond to the No Contact Rule?
How to avoidant attachment styles respond to the No Contact Rule?
How to anxious attachment styles respond to the No Contact Rule?
All discussed in this video. Also see videos mentioned in this one:
Psychology of the No Contact Rule: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GrKtsMtPRZs
Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk
Get Info on Coach Lee’s Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/
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Watch on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uMkoRelH-U0
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How To Move On After A Breakup When Still In Love
Coach Lee lays out how to move on after a breakup when you are still in love with an ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend. If you have been left and feel it is time to move on, this powerful video will help you see the way forward and how to move on.
If you want to know how to move on after a long term relationship when you are still in love, the task may seem impossible or extremely difficult. Coach Lee explains why this is the case and how you can make progress in moving on after a breakup with a boyfriend or girlfriend into an emotionally healthier place and, if you want, to find a loving romantic relationship in your future.
The best way to move on after a breakup is often not the most obvious or what well-intentioned friends might often tell us. Understanding the process, including how grief works, can be extremely helpful in this type of situation when moving forward seems out of reach. Be sure to watch the steps to moving on that Coach Lee discusses in this powerful and helpful video.
VIDEOS MENTIONED IN THIS ONE:
Overcoming Anxiety After A Breakup: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tWnTUZd1XBE&t=20s
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Is My Ex Testing Me?
Is your ex testing you or playing head games? Sometimes it seems that way and sometimes they are. Coach Lee explains how you can tell if they are testing you, what it means if they are, and what you should do about it.
Just know that it isn't necessarily bad news if your ex is testing you and that he or she might not have bad motives for doing so. Coach Lee will explain in this video.
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VIDEOS Mentioned In This One:
Should You Ignore Your Ex? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8kUIihf1gtw
What To Do When Your Ex Breaks No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R5A30Xmv43c
Clues Your Ex Wants You Back: https://youtu.be/Gz-LJJ5w42g
Watch on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MV575a3v9ag
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Don't Ask Your Ex These Questions!
When you see your ex face to face by accident or by their request, it's difficult to know what to say. Well I'm going to tell you what questions you should not ask your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend. I know you're curious but it's important that you keep these potential questions unasked.
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Videos Mentioned In This One:
Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk
Strategic Contact (If you have children with your ex): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcA47MmHP_I
Radio Silence VS No Contact To Get Your Ex Back: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sx2x1dO3uwA
What A Narcissist Can't Feel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-kCeuHe1R_o
Psychology of the No Contact Rule: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GrKtsMtPRZs
Get Info on Coach Lee’s Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/
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How To Deal With Anxiety After A Breakup
This is how to deal with anxiety after a breakup or separation, especially if you want your ex back.
Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/ and his Emergency Marriage Kit at https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-marriage-kit/
If you are struggling with anxiety after being dumped, this video is for you. Coach Lee shares things that you can do to feel better quickly and to help you with panic attacks or anxiety when it springs up in you.
Videos Mentioned In This One:
Encouragement During No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L8dA0Jh3mN8&t=19s
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No Contact Rule Success Stories
In this video Coach Lee shares No Contact Rule success stories and examples that he has seen while coaching.
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Videos Mentioned In This One:
Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk
Smart Contact VS No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3nF1CHdsBc&t=1s
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Steps To Get Your Ex Back
Coach Lee shares 3 steps to get your ex back after they broke up with you. Because having a plan you can refer back to on difficult days is important, Lee breaks down each step in detail but to where it makes sense.
This is a must-see video if you have just been broken up with or are feeling overwhelmed by all the advice floating around about how to get your ex back after a breakup.
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Videos Mentioned In This One:
The No Contact Rule: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQR5Wefd-Uc
What Is My Ex Thinking During No Contact? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0TCKTPQCuEg&t=767s
Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk
Strategic (Intelligent) Contact VS No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcA47MmHP_I
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How To Save My Marriage
Are you asking, “How to save my marriage?” If so, Coach Lee shares with you how to save a marriage from divorce, even if you are the only one trying or wanting to save it.
When it comes to saving a marriage from separation and divorce, it's important to have a strategy instead of just emotion or advice from well-meaning family members who don't have the knowledge that experience brinks.
In relationships, especially when two people are married, perception and direction are vital. What that means is that what your spouse perceives you are doing for or against the marriage can impact whether or not they choose to keep trying to save your marriage.
If your spouse believes that you are making an effort and the relationship is moving in a good direction, a spouse who wants to leave could change his or her mind.
If, however, things seem to stay the same and your spouse sees themselves as trapped in a marriage that they honestly don't even want to save, there is no motivation for your spouse to put in the work to try.
That is especially true if this is a second or third attempt at improving or salvaging a marriage.
If your marriage needs help, this video can be a powerful resource to prevent a divorce and save it.
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Read the accompanying article at https://myexbackcoach.com/how-to-save-a-marriage/
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The Dumper's Experience During No Contact
Coach Lee explains the experience that the dumper has from the point of breaking up with you through the stages of no contact.
If you use the no contact rule, the person who dumped you will likely follow a predictable path to getting to where they consider whether the breakup was a mistake and choosing to reach out to you about getting back together.
What most people are often surprised to learn is that the tables flip in terms of the emotional points that the dumper and the dumped find themselves considering where they both started at the point of the breakup.
Videos Mentioned In This One:
Stages Your Ex Goes Through During No Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk
Psychology of the No Contact Rule: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GrKtsMtPRZs
Strategic Contact Rule (For married couples or people who share children, pets, businesses, or property): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcA47MmHP_I
What Is Limerence? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uxtDBgc9Dws
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Psychology of the No Contact Rule
Coach Lee explains the psychology behind the No Contact Rule and why it often results in an ex coming back to you after they broke up with you. See the accompanying article to this video at https://myexbackcoach.com/psychology-of-the-no-contact-rule/
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Should I Play Hard To Get?
Coach Lee answers the question, "Should I play hard to get?"
You might ask if you should play hard to get to get your ex back or if you should play hard to get to attract the love and relationship you want.
Coach Lee discusses the subject of playing hard to get and if it is effective in attracting someone and causing them to want to be in a relationship with you.
Should women play hard to get? Should men? Coach Lee answers that question and explains what you can do to be more attractive and to build a great relationship with a wonderful person.
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Videos mentioned in this one:
Stages An Ex Goes Through During No Contact: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wYEAWNvtaTk
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