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Some people think we're wired to cheat. That monogamy is a form of controlling ups by religion or politics or something. Why is monogamy good? Why is it good for us? And why is it relevant in an non-agrarian society? World class biological anthropologist Helen Fisher and our panel of experts discuss.\n\nShare and discuss: http://www.yourtango.com/2016294454/monogamy-really-realistic-or-are-we-meant-stray

Sharon Lynn Wyeth, founder of Neimology, discusses popular girls names. How does it affect girls when they have friends with the same name?

Julie Spira, cyber dating expert, walks us through how to craft the absolutely perfect introductory email for online dating. What to say, what to reveal and when to send it.

Are women trained to distrust men? Or is it just by virtue of experience? How can women learn to trust themselves and their instincts in relationships? Our Experts discuss.

Julie Orlov discusses how to let your boyfriend, who lives at home, know that it's weird without pushing him away or hurting his feelings?

Not all abusive relationships leave welts and bruises but they all do leave scars. And some of us can't help picking at those scars and reopening them by pursuing the same kind of relationships which hurt us in the first place. How do we break the cycle of dysfunction and abuse? First, know that you're worthy of a good and safe relationship. Nancy Nichols has advice on how to do the rest.

Forgiveness is a tough thing. Where do you find it in your heart to get over the hurt of betrayal and disappointment?\n\nComment and share: http://www.yourtango.com/2013197980/infidelity-whats-key-forgiveness-video

Julie Ferman discusses how to make online dating fun and successful.

For the history of people, men have dated younger women. But, at least according to pop culture, the tide is turning and more and more women are going for younger men. Is this a real trend? If yes, what do women (and men) need to do to make this situation work? Paul Carrick Brunson and our panel of experts let loose on the cougar trend.

Why does flirting with my boss feel so good? Dr. Margaret Paul discusses flirting at the office, work spouses and getting the attention that you need.

You know you're married when... there is a very wrong way to do the dishes.

Liz Tuccillo, writer of Sex and the City and co-author of He's Just Not That Into You goes to Australia and finds out what that Aussies need more men! Australia Part 1.

Julianne Canterella discusses when in a relationship can she call their companion their boyfriend?

Having a great example is one of the best paths to success. But is it the same for relationships? Does being the child of divorce make it harder to succeed? Sue Johnson discusses relationship role models.

Instead of calling it quits because your new S.O. isn't giving you the cues you expected, take a step back and evaluate their behavior through some of these more unexpected but important signs that they do indeed like you.

It doesn't take much for these signs to feel close to others.

We all have needs, right? But how can you get your needs met without seeming too needy? Is being needy necessarily a bad thing? Harville Hendrix and our Expert panel discuss getting your needs met and meeting your partner’s needs.\n\nComment and share: http://www.yourtango.com/2015252090/how-to-fight-for-what-you-deserve-without-being-needy-video

It's a good idea to know what you want but what happens when you have a checklist that's too specific? Helen Fisher and our Experts discuss. \n\nComment and Share: https://www.yourtango.com/2014231356/your-dating-checklist-keeping-you-finding-one-video

Choosing to see a couples therapist is a big move. And choosing the right couples therapist is just as big. How do you know couples therapy is right for you? Well, are you in a committed relationship that could possibly be slightly better? If so, you two may be prime candidates. Next, how do you find a type of therapy that's right for you? Finally, how do you zero in on the exact right therapist to help save or even slightly improve your relationship? Mary Kay Cocharo has the answers to these questions and many, many more about getting yourself into a great couples therapy program.\n\nComment and share: https://www.yourtango.com/2018310351/couples-therapy-mary-kay-cocharo-LA

Part 2 of our video series with Esther Perel, couples therapist and author of "Mating in Captivity," which helps couples reconcile the domestic and the erotic.

I Have An Open Marriage [VIDEO]

The legal part of, well, anything is aggravating. This is especially the case when you're in the middle of a divorce and need a lawyer. What happens when your divorce lawyer isn't operating in a way you think is benefiting you? When do you know it's time to fire your lawyer and find a new one? Kimberly Mishkin and Liza Caldwell have advice on when to know it's time for new legal representation.\n\nComment and share: http://www.yourtango.com/2014208135/divorce-coach-should-i-fire-my-passive-divorce-lawyer-video

You're going to argue with your partner. That's a fact that binds all relationships. And the fights are painful. However, it's possible to make the fights worth the time and energy and actually improve your relationship. Impossible you say? Stan Tatkin and our panel of Experts have advice on how.\n\nShare and comment: http://www.yourtango.com/2017302507/yes-there-healthy-way-fight-and-it-can-save-your-relationship

Intention is incredibly important. "What do you want?" should be the first question you ask before going down a specific course of action. OK great. But how do you determine what you truly want from a relationship? How do you determine what you want to put in? John Gray and our panel of Experts have advice on how to start asking yourself those questions.\n\nComment and share: http://www.yourtango.com/2017301423/one-thing-thats-stopping-you-finding-your-soulmate-and-how-fix-it

What the eyes don't see, the heart doesn't feel. Liz Tuccillo meets unfaithful men in Brazil.