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Bad news: you need couples therapy. Good news: you're getting therapy and you're going to save your marriage. What do you need to know before beginning couples therapy? What do you need to do to make it successful? Our panel of experts has all the answers.

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With your phone, you’re in constant contact with the world around you. You can text, call, email, use social media to your heart’s content but still is it real connection? Why are we assailed with a kind of loneliness previous generations may not have experienced? Is our level of connection just isolating us more and more? John Gray and our panel of experts discuss disconnecting and defeating loneliness.

Great! You got a first date. And then no second date. Hmm. What could have happened? You BLEW IT! We often undermine our efforts and don't know why. Dina Colada walks you through what you may've done to derail your first date and what to do about it. Enjoy.

We know that the divorce rate has hovered around 50% for a couple of decades but doesn’t it just seem like marriage has gotten harder in the last decade? Are we too busy? Is the temptation to cheat too great? Are we all too selfish? Harville Hendrix and our panel of Experts discuss how to thrive in a thoroughly modern marriage.

It's hard to go out in public without seeing someone take a photograph of themselves or friends from their phone. Is taking photos of yourself a sign of narcissism? If you notice your kid taking a lot of "selfies" should you be concerned that you're raising a jerk? Is there anything you could even do about it? Barbara Becker Holstein has a few answers about selfies.

Every parent has at least fantasized about what it'd be like to not have kids. It's human nature when you're on 2 hours of sleep and your fifth diaper change. But are people without kids actually happier? Lisa Steadman discusses to breed or not to breed.

Online dating brings with it its own set of problems. What should you include in your profile? Who should you look for? Should you lie about your age? Julie Ferman has some great advice on how to describe your age as truthfully and delicately as possible.

Not many of us ever want to hear THAT song about it ever again but most of us truly want to be happy. But how do we become happy? It’s like breathing, thinking about it too much makes it more difficult. But there are several ways you can concentrate on the important things and voila! happiness is the byproduct. John Gray and our fantastic panel have advice on how to be happy for the rest of your life.

A lot of people have anger management issues. How can you control your anger better? And how do you get to the root of your rage? Dr. Rhoberta Shaler discusses why you're so mad all of the time.

Your last relationship was not great. It ended badly and you’ve been hung up on it for a while. How do you get over it? How do you move on to find someone good? And the greatest cliche of all time, how do you learn to love and be loved again? John Gray and our panel of experts discuss getting over your bad past and finding someone great.

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If you have a teenager you've probably noticed a lot of seemingly self-obsessed behavior. And there's nothing more seemingly self-obsessed than taking photographs of yourself. But are selfies inherently unhealthy? Barbara Becker Holstein sure doesn't think so and she'll tell you why.