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Do you know what a PUA is? It's a pickup artist and there are specific techniques they use to meet ladies. Julie Spira explains the difference between a pickup artist and a very interesting guy. Watch it on YourTango: http://www.yourtango.com/love-sex-dating-do-you-know-how-spot-pickup-artist-player-video

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Congratulations on the new beautiful, healthy baby! And now that you have the baby home and you're settling into a routine, you sort of want to spend some time with friends... maybe out of the house. How soon after having a baby can you go out with your friends and not feel guilty. Tara Kennedy-Kline discusses. Watch it on YourTango: http://www.yourtango.com/love-parenting-get-social-life-back-after-having-baby-family-confidence-video

A lot of women have confidence issues. We're presented with so many choices that we feel like we need to nail and it often causes anxiety. Lisa Kaplin discusses how to be more confident in decision-making and life.

Winding down a relationship is tricky. How do you know if it's salvageable? How do you know if you won't regret it? Janet Ong discusses how to have the confidence to break up or divorce and how to have the resolve to fix a relationship worth saving.

What's the biggest fear about online dating: people misrepresenting themselves. The scourge of catfishing has been all over the news but is it really that big of a problem? Cyber dating expert, Julie Spira, discusses this issue in detail. Nowadays, most people on the Internet are aware of what online dating or chatting means and what problems can come with it. Most of them are aware of <a href="https://rumble.com/v4qpi3-las-vegas-couple-indicted-for-allegedly-catfishing-two-men-stealing-their-v.html" target="_blank">the term catfishing</a> as it has become a popular term on the Internet. It has become more popular as more stories have surfaced on national level and in popular shows discussing the whole concept of catfishing. You might have heart of the popular show, Catfish, which involves two man introducing different stories from people who think they are being catfished. Catfishing is the act of luring a person into chatting or a relationship using a fake persona online. This can include lying about your age, job, personality, and most commonly using other people’s photos! This has become very popular with online dating sites or chat forums. In this video, Julie Spira, a cyber dating expert, discusses what catfishing is and how to avoid it. The dating expert elaborates what being catfished is and how it happens. Most people probably have been catfished but probably don’t know it. People use an attractive picture to lure people in and start chatting. Obviously, this plan falls apart once a meetup happens and the person doesn’t appear the same as in their pictures. Spira claims that most people think about the possibility of being catfished but they are in love with the idea of being in love so they go along with these long-distance relationships. These people usually start off as pen pals from different sides of the country that would probably never meet. They are never really sure if the person they are talking to is actually the person they say they are. Scary! You can often tell if you are being catfished if the photos they send you seem unrealistic. If they use model type pictures or somewhat sensual pictures, this can be a sign that they might not be the person they say they are! A great way to solve this issue is to search the picture they used online. Google has a feature where you can use a picture and see how many other places it comes up on. If their photo is seen on different sites and has been circulating around the internet for quite some time, you are most likely being catfished! Another way to solve the catfish problem is to plan some kind of hangout such as a skype or facetime call. Obviously, you will be chatting live, chatting face to face, and there will be no way to fake how they look like. If many excuses are given as to why they can’t skype, you should be concerned! This also applies for in-person hangouts. If the person avoids to show up their face, they are most likely hiding something. Beware! This is one very informative video and will definitely come in handy especially if you are into <a href="https://rumble.com/v4eje5-tonight-at-5-online-dating-betrayal.html" target="_blank">online dating</a>. It is always important to stay safe on the Internet and use all the necessary precautions when talking with strangers. Julie Spira gives you some great piece of advice that can help you avoid catfishing! Good luck!

It seems like kids are being diagnosed with all sorts of behavioral disorders these days. How young is too young to call your kids out of control? When can you firmly say that a kid has ADD or ADHD? Tara Kennedy-Klein discusses.

So you filled out an online dating profile and yet there has not been a flood of emails. Well, you are doing something wrong. Justin Kelly McClure explains how the cliches in your online dating profile are ruining your chances at finding love.

Maybe it's a sibling. Maybe it's a coworker. Maybe it's a spouse. We all have people in our lives who are just difficult. How do we handle them? When should we just cut them loose? How can we change our behavior? Rhoberta Shaler discusses how to make the difficult people in your life... less difficult.

Finding someone these days is harder than ever it seems. Who has the time? Why not hire a matchmaker? We use experts in the rest of our lives. Paul Carrick Brunson and the rest of our Experts discuss the great parts of having someone help you find and keep the love of your life.

Most moms want to be grandmas and the first step is making sure their kids find love. BUT what happens when mom's concern for our love lives goes overboard? Karin Anderson has advice on how to handle an aggressively interested mom.

Going through a difficult divorce may be the worst part of your life. It'd be pretty easy to just lose your mind. Micki McWade has advice on how to keep it from consuming your life and making you crazy.

How much of falling in love do we really control? And how can we make sure that we meet people who we deserve to be with? Laurel House has great advice on how to make the RIGHT guy fall head over heels for you.

Conventional wisdom tells us that opposites attract but could it be that complimentary personalities attract instead? Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil dispenses relationship advice based on which personalities mesh and which clash. \n\nWatch it on YourTango:

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So you've decided to get divorced. But what kind of divorce do you want? Rachel Green discusses the difference between divorce mediation and divorce litigation.

Someone at work or home tells you that you're being passive-aggressive. What does that mean? How would you know if s/he is accurate, or just labeling? Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, gives you the insights you need to figure out what may really be going on....and, it may not be all about you!

Conventional wisdom tells us that opposites attract but could it be that complimentary personalities attract instead? Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil dispenses relationship advice based on which personalities mesh and which clash. \n\nWatch it on YourTango:

It's chemistry! Conventional wisdom tells us that opposites attract but could it be that complimentary personalities attract instead? Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil dispenses relationship advice based on which personalities mesh and which clash.

No one wants to end up all alone. But there's always the problem of settling. What's "good enough" and how do you avoid making a lifelong mistake with Mr. Right Now? Janet Ong answers.

Everyone has at least a few second thoughts when they're getting married. But how do you know if your cold feet are pre-wedding jitters or something much more serious? Karin Anderson discusses if you need to take a deep breath or become a runaway bride. Weddings and <a href="https://rumble.com/v31xu7-street-interview-with-people-about-marriage-tehran.html" target="_blank">marriage</a> can be a super stressful part of life. This is a big step someone is taking and it definitely should not be something that one is rushed into. This is a person you will be spending the rest of your life with and you have to be fully committed to each other. Most marriages end because people didn’t seem to function well together once they got married. Obviously, they didn’t know each other the way they thought they did. If you want to avoid these mistakes, you better be sure that getting married is the right decision. This video discusses whether those pre-wedding feelings are just jitters or something bigger that you have to think about. Is this person the right person, or are you just really nervous, excited, scared, etc. Karin Anderson discusses the possibilities behind these feelings whether you are nervous with jitters or you are making a wrong decision. Karin Anderson has her PhD in psychology and studies humans very closely. Karin claims that it is very easy, especially for woman, to have envisioned their wedding day since they were young. If they played with dolls and set up nice weddings or dreamt of being princesses, this fantasy of a nice wedding is very common. It can be easy to get caught up in the moment, in the planning, and in the extravagance, that you might not consider their own feelings on the choice of spouse. After the <a href="https://rumble.com/v5it50-mother-and-song-pull-off-priceless-wedding-dance.html" target="_blank">wedding</a> and the fun is over, you are actually married to this person for a long time so it better be the right choice! Lots of people get cold feet, but if these fear increases the more you think about it, then the problem should be seriously revised. This is a big life changing situation and should be well thought out. Karin poses some questions to ask yourself to see how committed you are to this marriage. “Am I more in love with getting married than being an actual spouse?”, “Am I getting married to avoid loneliness?”, or “Can you honor your vows?”. These are all big questions to ask yourself and depending on the answer, you can find out if you are in the right or wrong situation. These are pressures we put on ourselves to what the ideal marriage before a certain age is, or how to have the perfect wedding. These pressures can lead to wrong decisions, bad marriages, broken vows, and an unhappy life. Karin talks about the people she has spoken with about this topic and some of those people are runaway brides. Although in the moment, running away from your wedding is a big mistake since you should have thought all this through before that point. Even though they ran away, they avoided making a bigger mistake in jumping into the marriage not fully committed. Karin says these runaways are very happy with the decision they have made it saved them from future troubles. She says it is much better to cancel a wedding then live your life in a bad marriage or something you are not happy with!

Do you like fun? Do you consider yourself a "real person"? Are you passionate about your career? Those 3 things share nothing about you and shouldn't be included in an online dating profile. Justin Kelly McClure shows us the rest of the cliches that will keep you from finding love online.

No one wants to end up all alone. But there's always the problem of settling. What's "good enough" and how do you avoid making a lifelong mistake with Mr. Right Now? Janet Ong answers.

Where are the good, responsible, mature men? Who knows? Dr. Rhoberta Shaler discussed finding a great, grownup guy and how to truly define what a mature man is.

Life comes at you pretty fast. How you handle it determines your level of stress. What does a mom have to do to feel less anxiety and less overwhelmed. Lisa Kaplin discusses.