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Passivity among men is destroying their potential and derailing society. It's time to redefine masculinity by embracing assertiveness and courage. In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down how true masculinity means actively addressing injustices with both strength and respect. He explores the fine line between assertiveness and bullying, offering actionable steps men can take to be more effective and impactful in their daily lives. You'll learn how to foster a balanced approach that marries boldness with respect for others, setting the stage for meaningful change. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:48) - Assertive Masculinity (04:45) - Defining Your Goals and Boundaries (10:26) - Embracing Assertive Masculinity Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

What does it mean to truly lead in today's political landscape? In this week's Friday Field Notes episode Ryan dissects the notion of masculine political positions, particularly as election season heats up. Ryan outlines eight critical stances—grounded in protection, provide, and preside. From "peace through strength" that underscores the importance of a robust defense, to the imperative of national sovereignty, he provides a comprehensive guide to understanding and advocating for these values. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Masculine Political Positions and Civil Discourse (12:55) Second Amendment and Family Values (17:49) Empowering Fathers and Free Markets (25:08) The Concept of Equality Versus Equity Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

Unlock the secrets to financial resilience in turbulent times and gain a fresh perspective on stress management and productivity. This episode promises to equip you with practical strategies for navigating market volatility, and provide actionable insights inspired by Warren Buffett and "Atomic Habits." Also, powerful financial habits, such as dollar-cost averaging and diversification, that can help you maintain stability and growth even amidst uncertainty, reinforcing the value of a disciplined approach to your investments. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:55) Market Volatility and Financial Habits (12:18) The Pitfalls of Victim Mentality (19:12) Navigating Complex Societal Issues (25:27) Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth (33:10) Choosing Health Over Conventional Treatment (46:02) Navigating Personal Challenges and Growth (53:03) Navigating Personal Legacy and Influence Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

In this week's Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp discuss the controversy surrounding the 2024 Olympics' opening ceremonies, using it to highlight the importance of focusing on positive content over disruptive provocations. They examine superficial public apologies, historical ignorance, and the promotion of communism. On a personal level, they explore emotional complexities, such as balancing grief with parenthood, expressing masculinity, and setting life standards. They offer practical advice on guiding younger siblings towards maturity, shifting from a selfish mindset to one of service, and navigating divorce challenges. The episode provides a multifaceted dialogue on these issues. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:44) - Olympic Opening Ceremonies (04:30) - Cultural Critique and Social Awareness (16:34) - Navigating Grief and Parenthood (22:16) - Emotional Expression and Masculinity (34:01) - Establishing Standards and Manly Behaviors (41:55) - Influencing Brothers to Grow Up (51:29) - Mindset Shift Towards Service (59:05) - Sharing Knowledge and Teaching Skills

Many men believe the American Dream is dead. Just take a look that the upcoming Presidential election and you’ll often hear how many will, in utter surrender and defeat, say, “My vote doesn’t count anyways so why do it?” Or, take a look at how many men will through up their hands and exclaim that there’s nothing they can do about their marriage, the economy, their job, or their circumstances. And, while there is much outside of our control, there is much still within it. My guest today, Mark Matson, founder of Matson Money is here to tell us why experiencing the American dream is not out of reach for those who may previously have thought so. We talk about how to invest your time, money, and energy wisely, an academic approach to intelligent investing taking into consideration human brain science, discovering a whole new way to see the world, the forces standing between you and the American Dream (and how to overcome them), and the crucial importance of developing what he calls, “Your Future View.” SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:41) - Reviving the American Dream (10:32) - Discovering Purpose Beyond Wealth (15:08) - Uncovering Purpose Amid Obstacles (24:30) - Building the American Dream (28:53) - Fighting for Family and Values (37:48) - Navigating Entrepreneurship and Politics (43:35) - Protecting the American Dream (53:51) - Impacting Men and Families Through Mentorship Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, uncover why the lone wolf mentality, often romanticized in media, is a recipe for disaster when reality hits hard. Learn how engaging in activities like jujitsu can foster essential connections, promoting not just competition and improvement but genuine camaraderie among men. In this episode, Ryan emphasizes the importance of intentionally seeking out manly activities to meet like-minded individuals. From shooting at the gun range to playing basketball and participating in Spartan races, these activities are more than just hobbies—they are avenues to forge lasting friendships. Ryan breaks down the initial discomfort that comes with meeting new people and highlight the power of asking for help as a connection strategy. Personal anecdotes illustrate how these efforts have led to meaningful and supportive networks. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:45) Building a Band of Brothers (04:24) Connecting Through Manly Activities (16:10) Strong Bonds Through Activities (21:21) Building Male Relationships Through Vulnerability (30:45) Engage, Connect, and Take Action Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

With all the world has to throw at you and me, it would be easy to allow life to get the better of us. Hell, in many circles, it’s expected and tolerated, if not encouraged. That isn’t how any of us here in Order of Man choose to live our lives. Instead, we choose to step up to the challenges we face and conquer them in spite of tremendous odds. My guest, good friend and founder of MTNOPS, Trevor Farnes, is a man who knows how to do exactly that. Today, we talk about his very humble beginnings, how he built MTNOPS into a globally recognized supplement company when his goal at the time was to serve his ailing father, why he doesn’t believe in compartmentalizing his life, how to have abundance even in scarcity, and why the most powerful place to serve is to the person you once were.

Reflecting on Ryan's journey from emotional turbulence to stability, this episode unpacks how making a woman feel safe and secure can transform a relationship. Ryan recounts his own battles with emotional volatility, particularly exacerbated by alcohol misuse, and the pivotal role of becoming a consistent, reliable partner. By grounding the relationship in emotional stability, the potential for deeper connections, shared joy, and adventurous experiences is unlocked. The episode also touches on the interplay between emotional and financial stability, showing how these two elements are essential for a secure relationship. Emotional steadiness allows for open, honest communication, while financial security reduces stress and opens doors for future planning. Ryan dives into practical tips, like managing finances with disciplined strategies and cultivating marketable skills, to minimize financial strains and focus on what truly matters—your connection with your partner. Finally, the episode explores actionable steps to build strength in a relationship from both a financial and personal standpoint. Using methods like Dave Ramsey's debt snowball, investing in personal development, and ensuring physical and emotional protection are key. Ryan discusses the importance of fitness, situational awareness, and even self-defense training to become your partner's rock. Join him as he maps out a path to becoming the partner you aspire to be, offering insights and strategies that are both practical and transformative. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:50) - Building Emotional Stability in Relationships (04:27) - Emotional Stability and Financial Security (10:55) - Building Strength in Relationships (18:36) - Creating Safety and Security in Relationships Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

The attempted assassination of former President Trump ignites a firestorm of reactions and exposes the deeply entrenched polarization within American politics. Join Ryan and Kipp as they dissect this dark weekend and its aftermath, questioning the fragile notion of unity in a nation increasingly divided. Can they foster civil discourse amidst a culture of demonizing opposing viewpoints, or are we too far gone? Their discussion underscores the urgent need for awareness and preparation for potentially dangerous times ahead. High-stress situations call for precise decision-making, especially when influenced by the inflammatory language of powerful figures. Drawing from personal military experiences, Ryan and Kipp scrutinize the complexities surrounding such events and the importance of articulating disagreements to fuel personal growth. They weigh the tough decisions between action and hesitation when assessing threats, emphasizing the role of structured planning and replicable systems in achieving consistent results—whether in personal goals or community contributions. Personal connections and learning together without ego are crucial, especially in an age of digital distractions. Ryan and Kipp explore the significance of maintaining in-person relationships, setting boundaries for focus, and inviting friends into more social, real-world activities. Through shared experiences, like hands-on learning between fathers and their children, they emphasize the value of bonding and imparting practical skills. Additionally, they address how to navigate grief and loss, embracing difficult emotions to honor loved ones and foster deeper, more meaningful connections. Join them for an episode packed with critical insights and practical advice for navigating these challenging times. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Political Polarization and Civil Discourse (15:46) - Security Detail and Response Evaluation (27:01) - Creating Replicatable Results Through Planning (40:46) - Setting Boundaries for Focus and Relationships (53:20) - Learning Together Without Ego (58:17) - Navigating Grief and Loss Together Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

With the recent assassination attempt of former President, Donald Trump, it’s easy to see how political tensions continue to racket up. And, it’s becoming increasingly obvious that we, as men, must be prepared to protect ourselves and others at a moment’s notice. My guest today, former Navy SEAL, Clint Emerson, has made a career of developing personal readiness in himself and others. Today, we talk about the missteps and conspiracy theories around Trump’s recent assassination attempt, how DEI initiatives endanger us all, when discrimination can be useful, why time equals opportunity and why opportunity equals survivability in these situations, the “run, hide, fight,” mentality, and how the Chinese could potentially start an American civil war without getting their hands dirty. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Security Protocols and Armchair Quarterbacking (11:29) - Security Measures and Gender Roles (20:29) - Security Protocol and Crisis Response (34:27) - Tactical Decision Making and Civil Unrest (45:08) - Foreign Invasion and Border Security (55:12) - Personal Preparedness and Responsibility Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

It's time to reclaim your strength and resilience. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the urgent need for men to prepare for life's inevitable challenges—whether it's a divorce, job loss, or medical emergency. He discusses the pitfalls of taking the easy way out and the crucial role of mental, physical, and emotional resilience in safeguarding loved ones and thriving amid adversity. Enough with the complaints! This episode is a wake-up call to adopt a solution-oriented mindset. Ryan explores how constant whining only reinforces weaknesses and stalls progress. He argues for the necessity of surrounding yourself with strong, positive individuals and receiving balanced advice that includes assertive male role models. It’s not about dismissing feminized perspectives but about creating a healthier, more robust masculine identity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Building Mental, Physical, & Emotional Resilience (09:06) - Overcoming Weakness and Seeking Masculinity (14:30) - Developing Masculine Strength Through Discomfort (25:59) - Building Masculine Resilience and Fortitude Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp explore emotions and communication through thought-provoking discussions. They kick off with a recent weekend of tubing and chores, highlighting their energetic nature. They discuss vulnerability in male relationships, emphasizing solutions over problems and urging men to reflect before reacting to emotional topics. They then tackle men's mental health and communication empowerment, discussing male depression and suicide. They underscore the importance of purpose, meaning, and camaraderie, advocating for action plans to combat a victim mindset and reframe challenges for growth. Ryan and Kipp also explore embracing differences in relationships, overcoming victimhood, and the importance of consistent communication. They discuss rebuilding oneself through better habits and navigating tribal mentality, ultimately emphasizing the balance of personal interests with family responsibilities. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Exploring Emotions and Communication (14:51) - Men's Mental Health and Communication Empowerment (26:26) - Embracing Differences in Relationships (32:33) - Accepting Ownership and Overcoming Victimhood (41:16) - Navigating Tribal Mentality and Individuality (45:08) - Labeling and Empowerment in Personal Development (54:32) - Finding Fulfillment and Truth (01:00:43) - Letting Go of Past Baggage

With so much going on in culture and society, it’s easy to drown yourself in the sea of relevant issues that need to be addressed. Unfortunately, so much of what we see and hear is largely outside of our control. But you can control yourself. And, that’s the good news. Today, I’m joined by Kyle Thompson with Undaunted Life to talk about how to do just that. We discuss ignorance and initiative, why diversity alone doesn’t really mean much, what Kyle has dubbed, “the 11th Commandment,” why compromise isn’t all it’s cracked up to be, and how to be the man your people need you to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:42) - Credit Card Controversy and Free Speech (09:48) - Stand for Beliefs, Don't Compromise (18:39) - Navigating Love and Judgment in Relationships (24:09) - Individual Preparedness and Societal Standards (33:13) - Call to Political Involvement and Awareness (38:02) - Local Involvement and Taking Initiative (49:50) - Setting Standards Over Goals (53:40) - Podcasting Persistence and Passion (57:39) - Supporting Content Creators in Need Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

Discover how to truly safeguard your freedoms and honor the legacy of our founding fathers. In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler promises to transform your understanding of Independence Day from mere celebration to a profound contemplation of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Ryan sheds light on the often overlooked responsibilities that accompany these cherished rights, emphasizing that they are not entitlements but opportunities demanding vigilance and effort. By focusing on the pivotal role of men as protectors, providers, and leaders, Ryan underscores the essential virtues of personal responsibility, self-improvement, and community service. He reflects on historical vulnerabilities and acknowledges deficiencies to ensure continuous progress and protection of our freedoms. Is the American dream alive and well, or is it under threat? Ryan delves into the current state of social security, Medicare, and Medicaid, outlining the urgent need for self-reliance over dependency on government aid. From getting in shape to getting out of debt and acquiring marketable skills, he discusses practical steps to reclaim control of your future. Ryan highlights the importance of community involvement, whether it’s helping a neighbor or running for local office. By taking these actions, you help safeguard the rights and responsibilities that our forebears fought so hard to secure. As you enjoy your freedoms this weekend, remember to remain vigilant and proactive in preserving them. Join Ryan next week as he continues this essential conversation on restoring and maintaining the American dream. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:55) - The Responsibilities of Freedom (11:19) - Taking Responsibility for Freedom (16:58) - Restoring the American Dream Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

Can balancing debt repayment with a social life actually lead to personal growth? Discover the nuances of juggling financial responsibilities and social engagements as Ryan and Kipp share practical tips and personal anecdotes. The episode includes a story about Ryan's recent skydiving adventure in Southern Utah, complete with the exhilaration of free-falling at 120 miles per hour and the twist that Ryan's girlfriend couldn’t join due to unpredictable winds. This segment is filled with humor and poignant reflections on facing fears and embracing unexpected twists. Switching gears, Ryan and Kipp dissect the political landscape with a focus on Joe Biden's latest debate performance and the strategies that might shape the future of the Democratic Party. From discussing potential new candidates like Michelle Obama and Gavin Newsom to analyzing Donald Trump's surprising composure, they offer a blend of humor and serious analysis. This chapter provides an engaging reflection on the key players in the current political scene, keeping listeners informed and entertained. They also explore the delicate balance of maintaining consistency in podcasting, tackling debt while preserving a social life, and the growth that comes from courageously facing life's challenges. Listeners will gain insights into managing fitness routines alongside personal development, handling stress-induced illnesses, and achieving closure in past relationships. Plus, listener questions bring thoughtful advice on becoming one's best self. Join Ryan and Kipp for an episode packed with valuable content, practical tips, and heartfelt personal stories. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:41) Skydiving Mishap and Presidential Debate (07:14) Political Debate and Church Activities (21:16) Consistency in Podcasting (27:36) Balancing Debt Repayment and Social Life (40:20) Anticipating Life's Challenges With Discipline (54:10) Seeking Closure for Past Relationships (57:43) Embracing Courage for Growth (01:07:03) Balancing Fitness and Personal Growth (01:19:56) Take Action and Become Your Best Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

Being a father is hard work but it’s also one of the most rewarding journeys a man can take in his life. With all the demands of life, it can feel like we, as fathers, as simply flailing around trying to figure out the best way to raise our children. With 4 of my own, just when I think I have it figured out, I’m thrown another curveball. My guest today, Larry Hagner, has spent the last 10 years coaching men who want to become the best fathers they can and, possibly, the fathers they never had themselves. Today, we talk about the spirit of fatherhood, what to plan for before your first child, a powerful tool Larry has built called the “Family Score,” to assess your performance as a father, building unbreakable bonds with your kids, how best to have tough conversations. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Fatherhood and Male Friendships (05:48) - Fatherhood Challenges and Growth (16:15) - Family Score and Feedback Perception (21:59) - Parental Communication and Emotional Regulation (29:47) - Personal Reform and Family Reconnection (33:59) - Men's Health and Personal Accountability (44:39) - Supporting Friends in Times of Struggle (51:45) - Empowering Through Curious Questions (55:33) - Bullying Advice and Fatherhood Support (59:11) - Exciting Event Coming Up Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler unlocks the key to a confident and fulfilling life, where hard-hitting truths every man must embrace are confronted. Discover why men aren't inherently entitled to anything and the critical importance of continuously proving worth through performance and value. Learn how to build more meaningful relationships and endeavors by making significant contributions that truly count. Find out how true strength lies in humility and honesty as conventional ideas of vulnerability are challenged. Ryan delves into the power of openly addressing struggles without falling into victimhood. Understand the crucial value of presenting solutions and maintaining control over circumstances to foster stronger personal relationships and an unshakeable sense of self-worth. Embrace the liberating power of focusing on what can be controlled and letting go of what can't. Discover practical advice on personal growth, skill enhancement, and nurturing meaningful relationships to lead a more adaptable and resilient life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:40) - 10 Harsh Truths Every Man Needs - (12:24) - The Power of Humility and Honesty - (24:22) - Letting Go and Accepting Life's Realities - (38:21) - Join IronCouncil Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

Reflecting on their contrasting Father's Day experiences, Ryan and Kipp kick off this week's Ask Me Anything with a personal touch. They then dive into a critical discussion around the House's recent defense bill. They explore the multifaceted implications of this decision, including the establishment of a drone force and the nuanced considerations of gender identity within these regulations. Switching gears, Ryan and Kipp dissect a thought-provoking interview with Joe Missoula, head coach for the Boston Celtics. Missoula's emphasis on his Christian faith over racial identity in sports challenges prevailing narratives and offers a fresh lens on leadership and diversity. They delve into heartfelt discussions on personal growth and parenting. For first-time fathers, Ryan offers invaluable tips on supporting partners and fostering bonds with newborns. He champions the idea of gradually introducing children to life's challenges, preparing them for independence. The episode concludes with insights on effective networking, the balance of parenting styles, and the perpetual journey of self-improvement. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Father’s Day, Draft Bill and Headlines (14:34) - Faith-Based Coach Discusses NBA Diversity (19:14) - Building Influence With Team Leaders (26:02) - Building Meaningful Connections Through Leadership (36:58) - Parenting Advice for First-Time Fathers (46:14) - Effective Networking and Personal Growth (53:25) - Navigating Communication Challenges in the Workplace (01:03:54) - The Power of Self-Development and Leadership (01:14:51) - Friendship and Appreciation in Leadership

If you’re paying attention even in the slightest, you know there is a clear and deliberate agenda to undermine and de-value men and the role they play in society. It’s crucial that we, as men, remain vigilant in the knowledge of that and, more importantly, continue to show up powerfully for those we wish to lead and serve. My guest today, Mark Driscoll, has been doing this for decades specifically through his ministry of Christ. We talk about whether or not men are the problem in society, the balance between fearless courage and loving kindness, why submitting to proper authority does not make us weaker men, the key archetypes of masculinity, Christian weakness, and why curiosity will you put you on a path to becoming a better man. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:42) - Men, Masculinity, and Convictions (07:23) - The Nature of God and Humanity (19:16) - Navigating Faith, Authority, and Hope (25:52) - Discussion on Faith and Humanity (34:50) - Exploring Fatherhood and Authority in Society (49:07) - Erosion of Masculinity in Society (01:00:26) - Encouraging Courage in Men (01:07:00) - Masculinity, Motives, and Mentorship Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler dives headfirst into the trifecta of health—mental, emotional, and physical. He reveals practical advice for optimizing physical health through the right diet and exercise, using an unforgettable analogy between vehicle maintenance and body care to underscore the importance of holistic well-being. Listeners will master the art of balancing all three aspects of health and become the best version of themselves. Prepare to build an unshakeable mental fortitude by embracing and conquering life's toughest challenges. Avoiding difficult tasks and conversations might feel easier, but it stunts growth and hampers productivity. This episode encourages you to face these hurdles head-on—whether it's a grueling workout, public speaking engagement, or deep self-reflection. Discover how pushing beyond your comfort zone and being brutally honest about your weaknesses can unlock your true potential and create an indomitable mental toughness. Our actionable steps will guide you toward courageous and honest self-assessment. Lastly, Ryan dives into the critical aspects of emotional well-being and personal growth. Learn why addressing procrastinated tasks and setting clear physical goals can help stabilize your emotional health. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:40) - Improving Mental, Emotional, and Physical Health - (12:29) - Building Mental Fortitude Through Challenges - (16:59) - Emotional Wellbeing and Personal Growth - (29:32) - The Iron Council Opens Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

Hunting has become such an integral part of my life and I can’t help but want to talk about all the stories and memories I’ve made and what hunting has done in my own life with other people. Many of you who listen to the podcast, know my co-host, Kipp Sorensen. When I had the opportunity to take him on his first archery hunt in Hawaii last week, I could not wait for it. Today, I share our conversation from the porch in Hawaii about his first archery experience. We talk about looking for and creating opportunities, the power of curiosity and inquisitiveness, how to get into hunting for the first time, being coachable and teachable and what that will do for your life, some of the lessons he’s learned, and whether or not he was able to get his first kill. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:40) - Primitive Archery Hunt on Molokai - (12:54) - Navigating Challenges in Skill Development - (15:54) - Finding Joy in the Process - (19:05) - Learning Archery - (26:24) - Importance of Presence in Hunting - (32:23) - Leveraging Solitude for Growth - (35:39) - Focused Mindset in Challenging Situations - (46:31) - Hunting Strategies and Value Exchange - (54:51) - The Power of Curiosity and Communication - (1:00:34) - Understanding Appreciation in Relationships Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explores the crucial topic of addressing mistakes with integrity and confidence. Failure is an inevitable part of life, but how we handle our missteps truly defines our character. Ryan shares personal anecdotes, including an archery practice mishap that led to damaging a neighbor's trailer tire. Through this seemingly minor incident, he illustrates a powerful three-part formula for addressing mistakes: acknowledging the error, making a deliberate attempt to fix it, and maintaining integrity. By owning up to our failures, we build the character necessary to face more significant challenges. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:42) - Addressing Mistakes With Integrity and Confidence - (07:31) - Take Responsibility, Learn, Improve - (16:24) - Men of Integrity

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares his journey through the emotional upheaval of divorce and offers actionable advice for others facing similar challenges. Ryan emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, accountability, and personal development across mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, and financial dimensions. With a candid approach, Ryan discusses the dangers of repeating destructive patterns, the need for strong parenting during separation, and strategies for fostering resilience and growth post-divorce. Practical steps for managing financial challenges and maintaining a positive trajectory are also covered. This episode serves as a beacon of hope and guidance for men striving to rebuild their lives and emerge stronger after the pain of marital breakup. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:52) - Navigating the Challenges of Divorce - (12:58) - Navigating Divorce - (17:24) - Personal Growth After Divorce - (26:26) - Navigating Divorce - (36:39) - Navigating Life After Divorce Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group

Join us in this week ASK ME ANYTHING as we share our exciting preparations for an upcoming axis deer archery hunt in Hawaii. Listen in as we detail the rigorous daily archery practice sessions and the vital adjustments needed for pinpoint accuracy – reminiscent of zeroing in a rifle. We'll explore the delicate balance between high expectations and the humility that comes with such an immersive outdoor experience, emphasizing the need for adaptability, not just in hunting, but in all walks of life. Power and leadership come with immense responsibility, a theme we tackle head-on as we discuss the contentious ideas put forth by Erik Prince and the ethical implications they carry. We scrutinize the thin line between the beneficial use and potential abuse of power, drawing insights from religious texts and philosophical musings on the human condition. In a similar vein, we navigate the intersection of personal faith and secular professional life, advocating for the integration of Christian principles in a way that respects diverse beliefs while avoiding logical fallacies in reasoning. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:40) - Preparing for Archery Hunt in Hawaii - (07:43) - Power and Responsibility in Leadership - (15:58) - Biblical Principles in Secular Environments - (28:43) - Effective Networking and Increasing Earning Potential - (33:22) - Navigating Relationships and Self-Improvement - (46:55) - Letting Go and Moving On - (52:46) - Complimenting Ryan's Resemblance Order Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Masculinity-Manifesto-Establishes-Influence-Credibility/dp/1684513316 Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready. https://orderofman.link/battle-ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner and maximize your week. https://orderofman.link/12-week-planner-app For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood: https://orderofman.link/iron-council Support the Order of Man mission by picking up merchandise: https://orderofman.link/support-the-mission Connect with us on the socials: Instagram https://orderofman.link/instagram Facebook https://orderofman.link/facebook-page Twitter https://orderofman.link/twitter-ryan Join the Order of Man Facebook group: https://orderofman.link/facebook-group