LackyTalks

Further resources to extend the depth in our minds THE DECEPTION OF THIS LIFE AND THE ILLUSION OF ENJOYMENT https://themuslimvibe.com/faith-islam/the-deception-of-this-life-and-the-illusion-of-enjoyment Time stamps 00:00 - what is a mirage? 00:34 - Life is an illusion 01:33 - live this life as a traveller 03:46 - Life is a game 04:44 - you won’t take anything with you 05:03 - Sleeping is a partial death 05:41 - your soul departs from your body during sleep 07:01 - your soul visits the unseen during sleep 09:05 - when you die that’s when reality starts 10:21 - power of dua 10:44 - Benefits of seeing this life as temporary 11:19 - Live this life like a traveller 15:53 - we will only take our good+bad deeds with us 16:37 - Research the journey of the soul 19:57 - You’ve got nothing to loose but everything to gain

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The book that made me fall in love with Allah swt and myself! Secrets of Divine Love https://amzn.to/3Ye4aqO Time stamps 00:00 - Gratitude is the precursore to experiencing god 40:12 - Solutions to dealing with negative thoughts/imposter syndrome/ shaytan's whispers 45:54 - Helping others (cure to depression) 48:32 - Seek guidance from your Creator 49:04 - How to deconstruct negative thoughts 56:04 - You are in control 58:08 - Know your ENEMY 01:01:12 - Cut out all outside noise 01:03:38 - Seek protection from Allah

Documenting my journey as I go. Showing the good the bad and the ugly to say we make mistakes and that's what makes us human but we must learn from our mistakes and continue to seek guidance from Allah.

The book that made me fall in love with Allah swt and myself! Secrets of Divine Love https://amzn.to/3Ye4aqO Time stamps 00:00 - COMING UP 00:32 - My Deep contemplation of the soul 09:18 - My journey on self love 10:19 - No boundaries invites disrespect 11:25 - Conditioned to accept abuse 13:25 - My breaking point 15:14 - Standing up for myself 17:53 - My struggle of saying NO 19:25 - Learning to say NO 22:23 - I was a giver with no limits 23:11 - Helping people who want to be helped 24:50 - My soul was exhausted 25:47- Trying to find love from empty people 26:07 - Why I was people’s doormat 28:26 - You attract who you are ( broken people ) 30:50 - My experiences made me 31:57 - My healing journey 39.06 - Take care of your soul, it belong to Allah 41:21 - Don’t justify people’s abuse towards you 46:33 - Respect yourself and say NO 47:43 - Your soul needs you 48:35 - Find Allah and you will become deeply connected to yourself 49:22 - Honour yourself the way Allah honoured you 49:46 - This video is a gift from me and a guidance from Allah 52:11 - Whoever is for you will never miss you 53:21 - Don’t jeopardise your relationship with Allah for anyone 54:04 - Only Allah is with you every step of the way 55:34- We are limited beings 56:16 - We get our knowledge from Allah 57:27 - Allah gives us the ability to love him 57:47 - Loving Allah Leads to Love for yourself 58:54 - Last words of advise 01:04:45 - The word NO is your super power

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Contact me through my socials if you need further advise sis 💕 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@lackytalkss?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Instagram @Lackytalks My Business email lackytalks@gmail.com Time Stamps 🫶🏽 00:00 - Muslim husband wants anal sex and he knows its haram 00:00 - Your boundaries being violated 01: 12 - How I am going to be helping you in this video 01:29 - Why is Anal sex forbidden? 01:48 - Rectum muscle does not snap back like the vagina 02:03 - Rectal prolapse 03:50 - Anus does not self lubricate like the Vagina 03:57 - Anal fissures 04:31 - The anus facilitates and holds poo and bacteria 04:49 - STI ( sexually transmitted infections) 06:03 - Porn being a great influence 06:39 - You will poo all over him during anal sex 07:23 - google says anal sex is safe? 09:20 - What does Allah say about anal sex? 10:14 - How does fertilisation happen? 12:32 - “cursed is he who has anal intercourse with his wife” 13:33 - Why this will affect the society as a whole if one individual couple decided to have anal sex 14:15 - Anal sex was practiced by the people of Sodom 15:22 - Question and challenge your husband 16:02 - How does Allah describe the people of Lut AS who practiced anal sex? 16:27 - Set CLEAR boundaries 16:50 - Educate your husband on the dangers of anal sex 17:03 - Learning basic anatomy will get rid of the ignorance 17:07 - Do not allow someone to make you go against the laws of Allah 17:39 - Don’t destroy your body for someone else 18:46 - This is a grave sin 19:56 - The West promotes anal sex 21:07 - Assalamualikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

This is for the brothers who struggle to control their anger and hurt the people they claim to love. Time stamps 00:00 - Addressing abusive muslim men 00 :32 - Learnt Behaviour 03:52 - The Islamic Solutions 05:11 - The Devil’s tricks

Time stamps 🫶🏽 00:00 - How does any of you beat your wife like you beat the stallion camel and then request to sleep with her at night? 00:31 - How the abuse started… 00:55 - You were made to believe you deserved the abuse 01:12 - The effect of emotional violence 01:48 - Backwards minded cultural families telling abused women to have patience 02:37 - Allah wants you to remove yourself from harmful people 02:53 - No desire for sex 02:58 - Husband Misquoting islamic texts to manipulate you to have sex 03:05 - Forced (RAPE) or coerced sex 03:49 - Effects of abuse and marital rape 03:59 - How he chips away at your self worth 04:18 - Undiagnosed mental disorders caused by the abuse 04:54 - Why you can’t leave him 05:15 - What is rape? 05:47 - Your rights and boundaries have to be respected 7:01 - You DO NOT have to have sex if you are being abused! 08:02 - Physical Power imbalance 09:21 - Islamically when can a women refuse intimacy? 09:57 - Solutions Links to articles similar to the subject: Marital rape https://sistersinislam.org/quran-marital-rape/ Why you can’t leave the abuser https://lastingloveconnection.com/7-stages-of-trauma-bonding/ Emotional abuse in an intimate relationship https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3876290/ My Socials 💕 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@lackytalkss?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

This is the video that you've probably been looking for a while, you have been silently suffering because our society shame women for talking about these 'taboo' topics. Your suffering will come to an end with every video I make coaching you on how to navigate these difficult situations in your marriage. Time codes 00:00 - Your husband is rejecting to have sex with you 04:38 - Don’t worry sis, I understand how your feeling 04:55 - Direct Solutions for muslim narcissistic husband who doesn’t want to be intimate 05:02 - It is your right to have your sexual needs met 05:38 - Sexual intimacy is a need of yours 05:59 - what would happen if your sexual needs are not met 06:41 - Doubts, suspicions, jealousy, insecurities, mental health deterioration 07:49 - A woman won’t respect a man who isn’t meeting her sexual needs 08:53 - Denying sex is a form of oppression 09:10 - A woman will only submit to a man who fulfils her sexual needs 09:34 - Its in a Woman’s nature to be malleable and agreeable 09:56 - A man cannot demand respect if he hasn’t earned it 10:09 - Set a time and date for the intimacy 10:29 - Building suspence leading up to the moment 11:32 - Prepare yourself mentally and physically 11:59 - What to do if your husband is still rejecting you 12:34 - Focus on yourself and build your self worth back up 13:03 - Starve your husband of the validation and attention 13:14 - RESPECT YOURSELF AND DON’T BEG 14:21 - What to do if your husband starts to throw a TEMPER TANTRUM 14:51 - Stand your ground and remind him why you are distancing from him 15:07 - DON’T underestimate the POWER of the dua 15:28 - LAST RESORT get a khula 15:51 - You can get a Faskh if your husband refuses to give you a divorce 18:08 - Assalamualikum Warahmatulilahi wabarkathuhu

Follow along easily with Time stamps below or even skip to the parts you want to listen to. I would recommend watching the full video to understand the bigger picture. 🤯 0:00 - Frustrated in a sexless marriage? 0:11 - You’ve expressed your feelings to your husband 0:20 - Narcissistic muslim men shaming wife for having sexual needs 0:29 - why do Narcissistic Muslim men shames their wife for having sexual needs? 0:47 - My experience having been married to a narcissist 04:07 - Sex is the foundation of a healthy marriage 05:38 - Direct solutions (how to deal with not having your sexual needs met) 05:47 - Allah has created you with this innate sexual need 05:57 - Sexual intimacy and orgasm is a woman’s RIGHT in ISLAM 07:17 - The rewards of fulfilling the wife’s needs 07:37 - Men are Al qawwam (providers of our basic needs) 08:34 - Men and women have different biological needs 09:14 - Women take longer to orgasm 09:49 - Sex without foreplay can cause injury 10:29 - Wife needs to orgasm first before the husband does 10:43 - The prophet (PBUH) address to the men about women orgasming first 11:43 - Sisters take ownership of your own sexual desires 13:17 - Direct him during sex about your needs and wants 14:29 - Your husband is responsible for fulfilling your sexual needs 15:23 - Narcissistic muslim husbands being selfish in the bedroom 15:40 - Do not start sex if he hasn’t prepared you 15:53 - Mental stimulation 17:28 - Importance of Foreplay 18:27 - stimulation of the clit 21:08 - Women’s Orgasm 22:39 - Rhythm (pacing the act of penetrative sex) 23:32 - Summary 26:23 - Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabaraktuhu

Are you a hopeful, dedicated and loving sister, wife, best friend, daughter trying to help the hopeless people in your life? Are you feeling tired and feel angry with everyone because you are constantly compromising your physical and mental health for the convenience of others. You don't know why you feel what you feel. This video will help gain clarity and understanding about your experiences with the people that claim to love you but are hurting you. Leave a comment and share what were the things you were able to relate to and hit close to home. Feel free to share your experiences and lets open up a much needed conversation about this oppression people are facing on a daily basis unknowingly because it is the "norm".