DeborahSurvivor

Living with what I "should" have done.

In this video, with 2 traumaversaries coming up, I talk about what's real and what's not in a narcissistic relationship.

I talk about the hard part of healing relationships.

In this video, I catch up on what's been happening in the last few months.

In this video, I talk about remembering the small victories when you can't see growth.

In this week's video, I go over knowing why I was with a narcissist and generational curses.

In this video, I go over what hoovering is and why a narc will do this to get what they want, and that is abusing you further.

In this video, I go over grieving a marriage that was never how it was portrayed.

In this video, I talk about how verbal/emotional abuse is still abuse.

What I did to prepare to leave my ex.

In this week's video, I talk about the coming anniversary of my divorce in addition to a few new revelations.

In this week's video, I go over how empowering setting boundaries are.

In this video, I go over how your worth is way more than what your abuser has said or treated you like.

In this video, I talk about how narcissists say and do all the right things in order to manipulate you.

This video is part 1 in what will be a series of videos on how to deal with a narcissist. In this video, I go over the realizations that I came to this week.

In this video, I go over re-feeling memories from 17 years ago, as well as an update on things.

In this video, I talk about 3 books I am now reading. I also go over continuing to discover who you were, before the abusive relationship. I talk about how I am enjoying discovering ME again.

In this video, I go over how I was married 32 years before I had my abuser removed and how it doesn't matter how long you've been with your abuser.

In this video, I talk about what forgiving your abuser looks like, and what it doesn't.

In this video, I go over the most toxic mindset that has been the cause of making abusive relationships worse.

In this video, I go over how healing from trauma is exhausting both mentally and physically and ways I am learning to cope with that, as well as overcoming it.

In this video, I go over why I stayed and then left from a perspective of being almost two years out.

In this video, I talk about what abusers will do in order to keep abusing you.

In this video, I go over breaking down a traumatic memory in order to be able to put it in the past, as well as dealing with the after effects.

In this video, I talk about learning the signals that your body gives when something isn't right, especially when trauma is involved.