I CAUTION BLACKS & BLACK LATINO MOTHERS TO THINK HOW YOUR BEHAVIOR IS GOING TO AFFECT YOUR SON & HOW HE TREATS OTHER WOMEN… THE CURSES!!🕎 Ephesians 6:4 “ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up”
BLACK MOTHER VS. BLACK DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP COMPETITION : WHEN WE EXPERIENCE TRAUMA WE CAN LOSE CONNECTION, UNDERSTANDING & AWARENESS OF TRAUMA EXPERIENCED. 🕎Deuteronomy 28;45-50 “And they shall be upon thee for a sign
BLACK MOTHER-DAUGHTER & SON RELATIONSHIP: GENERATIONAL CURSES PASSING ON PATTERNS FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION….STRUGGLING WITH TRAUMAS THAT THEY EXPERIENCED WITH THEIR MOM.🕎Deuteronomy 28;45-50 “And they shall be upon thee for a sign”
HOW BLACK & BLACK LATINO MOTHERS EVE ARE VIEWED IN THE COMMUNITY: ABUSIVE TRAUMATIC CHILDHOOD TRAUMAS CAN LEAD DOWN A SELF DESTRUCTIVE PATH…. LETTING GO DEDICATED & UNRELENTING HATRED TOWARDS MY MOTHER.🕎Ephesians 6:4 KJV
TRAITS OF A TOXIC BLACK MOTHER: OUR MOTHERS BEHAVIORS ARE ALMOST ALWAYS DEFENDED WHILE OUR CRYS & PLEADS FOR HELP GO UNANSWERED….THE CURSES!!🕎 Deuteronomy 28;45-50 “And they shall be upon thee for a sign & for a wonder”
BLACK SHEEP OF THE FAMILY, TOXIC MOTHER-DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP: IF THE RELATIONSHIP IS TOXIC THEN A DAUGHTER MAY STRUGGLE ALL THE WAY INTO THEIR ADULTHOOD…THE CURSES!!🕎Deuteronomy 28:56 “her eye shall be evil toward the husband & Children”
HEALING DIFFICULT BLACK MOTHER-DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP: GAINING AUTONOMY OF YOURSELF, WHAT YOU DONT HAVE WHEN YOU HAVE A BLACK MOTHER WOUND IS “AUTONOMY”… EMOTIONAL AUTONOMY, MENTAL AUTONOMY & OFTEN TIMES PHYSICAL AUTONOMY.🕎Deuteronomy 28;45-50
HEALING TOXIC BLACK MOTHER-DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIPS, THE BLACK MOTHER WOUND: YES YOU DO HAVE TO FORGIVE BUT MOVE WITH INTENTIONALITY & ALLOW TIME TO HEAL YOUR WOMBS.🕎Deuteronomy 28:56 “her eye shall be evil toward the husband & children”
TOXIC BLACK MOTHER-DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP: BREAKING THE CURSE OF THE STRONG BLACK WOMAN IS A CROWN OF THORNS, IT HAS BEEN MARKETED TO US…. THROUGH THE CHURCH, MEDIA, TV & MUSIC.🕎Deuteronomy 28;45-50 “And they shall be upon thee for a sign”
TOXIC ABUSIVE BLACK MOTHERS IN WEST AFRICA: THE ASHANTI TRIBE(GHANA), & IGBO TRIBE (NIGERIA)…ISRAELITES SCATTERED GOING THROUGH THE SAME HOUSEHOLD TRAUMAS…THE CURSES!!🕎Deuteronomy 28:56 her eye shall be evil toward the husband & children
TOXIC BLACK MOTHER-DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP GENERATIONAL TRAUMA: HATEFUL TO THEIR DAUGHTERS & SONS….THE CURSES & THESE OVERWHELMING TRAUMAS!!🕎Deuteronomy 28;45-50 “And they shall be upon thee for a sign & for a wounder”
ATTACHMENT NEEDS REMAIN SIGNIFICANT THROUGHOUT THE LIFESPAN, ANY UNPROCESSED ATTACHMENT RELATIONSHIP TRAUMAS CAN SERVE TO PERPETUATE NEW TRAUMAS….ITS NO LONGER ABOUT YOU & YOUR MOTHER, ITS ABOUT YOU, YOUR SPOUSE & CHILD.🕎Matthew 27;21-26 KJV