The Great Martha Stewart Controversy: A Candid Chit-Chat on Midlife Expectations
Have you been part of the online buzz recently? The chatter has been a swirling storm around Martha Stewart, the home décor queen and kitchen whiz. She stepped onto the glossy cover of Sports Illustrated at the ripe age of 81, leaving our midlife community spinning in a frenzy of opinions.
Holly and I, with our teacups steaming, decided to jump right into the middle of the debate on our most recent Facebook LIVE. I'll admit, at first, I wasn't on board with it with Si’s choice. It seemed a tad uncool. However, after a little introspection and a hearty dialogue, I found myself changing camps (but not the one that you thought!).
Our discussion was peppered with our experiences, views, and quite a few chuckles. We dissected this hot topic, where Holly admitted that Martha Stewart was never her cup of tea because she's a little too upper-crust for her liking. Holly was quick to clarify, that she has no love for the stove, and interior décor wasn't her forte. So, maybe it was just a matter of not vibing with her brand.
On a more serious note, though, we acknowledged that Martha's perseverance is indeed commendable. She's weathered her share of storms, from tax evasion to a complete image makeover, and still managed to reclaim her throne. That, ladies, deserves a round of applause. However, we couldn't help but feel that her SI cover paints an unrealistic expectation of an 81-year-old woman, sending mixed messages about body image and age representation.
We dove headfirst into discussing the pros and cons. On the bright side, having an 81-year-old woman on the cover of Sports Illustrated is indeed a step forward. However, the exclusivity of such representation screams privilege and fails to reflect the average aging process of women today.
I agreed with everything that Holly said and added an unexpected twist to our discussion. I raised the question – what did we really expect from a platform that has long painted an unrealistic image of women? Maybe SI isn't the one to blame for our disappointment. Perhaps, we've set the bar too high for them and expected a significant leap from a brand that has consistently maintained a specific image narrative.
While we passionately agreed about the need for narrative change, we realized that change has to begin with us. We ought to be the ones defying norms and celebrating our bodies as they are, jiggly bits and all! There's nothing more liberating than accepting our bodies and embracing the changes that come with age.
Then, we took a stroll down memory lane, reminiscing about shows like 'The Golden Girls' and 'Sex in the City,' and how they've portrayed midlife women. It was interesting to observe how the portrayal has evolved, yet some disparities remain.
So here's the crux of our chit-chat: changing the narrative is no one's job but ours. We shouldn't wait for brands to represent us, rather we should take the reins and showcase our own powerful, beautiful and authentic images. Aging is a natural process, and each wrinkle and each laugh line is a badge of honour that we should wear with pride.
Let's redefine the beauty norms, one powerful midlife woman at a time!
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How to Lose Weight and Gain Energy in Midlife with Lara Frendjian
Are you a midlife woman battling with stubborn weight, dipping energy levels, and unanswered health questions? You're not alone, and it's not your fault. This week's powerful episode of The Roller Coaster of Midlife is the lifeline you've been looking for.
Join us as we welcome the remarkable Lara Frendjian, a highly esteemed Registered Holistic Nutritionist who has been a beacon of hope for countless women in their 40s and beyond. With an impressive track record in women’s nutrition and health, Lara specializes in navigating the hormonal hurdles that mark midlife, often manifesting as energy depletion, anxiety, weight gain, and metabolic issues.
In an enlightening and empowering conversation, Lara deciphers the complex hormone puzzle in a simple and digestible manner, revealing how imbalances can instigate a chain of health challenges. She uncovers why today's midlife women are uniquely poised against a dual challenge when it comes to nutrition and hormones. More importantly, Lara shares valuable insights and practical steps to reclaim your energy, body confidence, and overall health.
If you're tired of feeling exhausted, struggling with sleep, and battling with weight that just won't shift, this episode is your essential guide. Tune in to discover a fresh, effective approach to health and nutrition, learn the secrets to decoding your body, and start your journey towards renewed vitality and confidence today.
Hit 'play' to unlock the mysteries of your midlife body, and emerge empowered with knowledge and practical tips from a true authority in the field. After all, midlife is a roller coaster – but together, we can make it a thrilling ride!
Your weight doesn't define you, but the right knowledge can redefine your health. So, let's take the first step together. Tune in to this transformative episode now!
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🧐Uncovering Your True Self Discover the Power of Midlife Transformation!
Welcome to 'The Roller Coaster of Midlife LIVE!’, where we dive into the thrilling highs and challenging lows of navigating the wild ride known as midlife.
Let’s face it, some days, it might feel like the scariest ride you've ever been on. But somewhere in between the adrenaline and chaos, there's something truly magical that happens when we learn to embrace midlife and connect with our authentic selves.
After decades of checking other people’s boxes and trying to meet other people’s expectations, where do we begin the journey back to who we truly are? In this episode, I have Holly Boxenhorn with me to chat more about how to truly embrace midlife.
In this episode, Holy and I chat about:
⭐How aligning your thoughts, actions, and choices with your genuine values, passions, and aspirations brings authenticity
⭐ Why authenticity gives a sense of empowerment, as you reclaim your power and make choices that reflect your deepest desires and values
⭐ We also explore the challenges such as societal expectations, fear of judgement and rejection, and people-pleasing.
Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to support other awesome midlife women on their unique journeys. See you on the inside, you incredible woman, you! 💜💫💪🎉
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Unlocking the Power of Midlife Women Connections!
Michelle DeKeyser of Connecting Mamas chat about the importance of connecting with other midlife women and how that looks different for everyone. Check It out and comment on how you connect or if you need more connections!
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Why 49 Is Only the Beginning with Vica Rader
Do you ever find yourself repeating the same mistakes or being stuck in the same cycles and behavioural patterns? You may have tried hard to will yourself to change, but with no luck. Midlife is the perfect time to reflect on our journey so far and decided how we want to live the next part. This is a time for us to choose our own adventure, but we also know that if we keep doing what we’ve always done, we’ll get what we’ve always got. So how do we break these old patterns that we’ve been lugging around for decades and actually become whom we’ve always dreamed of being?
Joining me today is Victoria Rader aka Vica, Possibility Coach™, transformational speaker, founder of YU2SHINE, internationally best-selling author of Prosper mE: the 35 Universal Laws to Make Money Work for You (and three other books), creator of Empower-mE and Master-mE apps, founder of Free mE EFT and Quantum Freedom.
Connect with Vica at yu2shine.com and on Instagram @vica_rader
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How to Find Your Midlife Style with Keri Blair
This is a rebroadcast from a Facebook LIVE! To catch LIVE episodes follow: The Roller Coaster on Facebook
Ever wished for a fairy godmother to transform your closet into a collection of clothes that are truly you? You're not alone!
In this episode, we're joined by Keri Blair, CEO and Style Master at The Style Studio and host of the podcast, Style Your Dreams. Keri shares her expertise on how midlife moms can look and feel amazing every day by overcoming wardrobe struggles, identifying personal style, and embracing their unique body shapes.
Don't miss this chance to get inspired and unleash the confident, stylish woman you've always wanted to be!
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Launch Your "On-Purpose" Business in Midlife with Kathryn Yarborough
Midlife is a time to explore who we’ve become, where we are and where we want to go. Part of this journey for many women reveals the desire to move away from the constraints of a typical 9-5 job and create something of our own, something that deeply connects to what ignites us, our purpose.
I’ll be the first to admit that this can be overwhelming and damn scary at times because it is what I have been living for over a year now. Joining me today is Kathryn Yarborough of Manifesting Clients Academy to share how to follow your calling and launch your On-Purpose business. We chat about:
How a person knows if she’s been called. Ways to make money from an on-purpose business. The 5 steps to grow an on-purpose business.
Connect with Kathryn at www.manifestingclientsacademy.com and on Instagram @kathrynyarborough
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Why Midlife is THE Time for a Career Change with Caroline Rae
A few episodes ago, we chatted about how to manage career change in midlife and the things that we can do to stay ahead of things. I know, the prospect of such a drastic change can be daunting. But what if we looked at it differently? What if midlife was THE best time for a career change?
Joining me today is Caroline Rae, a trusted Global Executive Coach to executives, entrepreneurs, and experienced leaders worldwide and is committed to empowering high-level leaders to elevate their performance with clarity and confidence so they can build impactful, rewarding careers they are proud of.
Many women want to change careers midlife because they’re looking for something that is more fulfilling and aligns with their purpose, but they don’t make the move because they think it is too late. Today we're chatting about why is midlife THE time to make a career move and we cover:
3 things you’re doing that are wasting your time and energy How does stalling your leadership impact career progress Why it’s time to let go of the career ladder and embrace the ‘career relationship’
Connect with Caroline at https://members.carolineraecoaching.com/nextmove and on Instagram @_carolinerae and LinkedIn @carolinesrae
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How to Navigate Imposter Syndrome with Patricia Suggs
I don’t know why, but it always surprises me when a woman shares that she feels that she’s a fraud and isn’t qualified to be doing what she’s doing. On the outside, she appears to have it all together and is succeeding and inspiring others but that’s not what she feels on the inside.
It’s funny that I find it surprising because which each new venture I take on, that fear creeps in. Who am I to be doing this? I ask myself. The lesson is that no matter what level someone may reach, that feeling of doubt can rear its ugly head.
Joining me today is Patricia Suggs, an internationally known speaker and bestselling author, the CEO and Founder of ARISE Leadership Consulting, the CEO of PKS Publishing, and a Trainer/Facilitator.
Today we’re diving into imposter syndrome, and we chat about:
Characteristics of imposter syndrome Techniques to work through the syndrome How to transform perfectionism into healthy ways to succeed Connect with Patricia at patricia@pksuggscoaching.net
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How to Find Your Spark in Midlife with Michelle DeKeyser
Many of us moms, spend the better part of two decades putting everything we have into our kids, husband, and home. We often forget about ourselves until one day it feels like a big spotlight is shining on everything we’ve neglected for years. The catalyst may vary, someone getting their driver’s license, planning for prom or the first college drop-off. It can feel like the ground beneath you is opening and you wish it would just swallow you up. Anything to stop the voice in your head asking, “So who are you now?”
Joining me today is Michelle DeKeyser, who in 2020, realized that she needed something more and started a journey of self-exploration.
In this episode we chat about:
The dangers of putting everything into our kids without investing time/money in ourselves Finding your spark through connection How disconnection has become a bad habit
Connect with Michelle at www.connectingmamas.com and on Instagram @mama_connector
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How to Manage Midlife Career Change with Osnat Benari
Change is part of life, it can either be an opportunity to make us or break us. Let’s face it, change brings uncertainty and fear, and one place that can be hit hard is when it comes to our careers. When change comes our way, either by choice or force, the feeling of “Starting from Scratch” can be daunting.
In this episode, I'm chatting with Osnat Benari, product consultant and author of "Starting From Scratch - Manage Change Like Your Career Depends on It."
We chat about:
💼How change is manageable
💼What to consider when starting from scratch
💼What is crucial to seeing opportunities
💼What might be holding you back
Connect with Osnat at www.startingfromscratchthebook.com and on Instagram @startingfromscratchbook
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How to Live Your Best Life on Your Terms with Cassandra Crawley Mayo
Growing up I can remember my mum saying to me “you are your own worst enemy”, it took a while to understand what she really meant. Now, I can see that ‘being our own worst enemy’ is part of the human experience. We let things like self-doubt, imposter syndrome and limiting beliefs stop us from achieving what we truly want.
In this episode, I'm chatting with Cassandra Crawley Mayo a corporate leader who achieved her goal of retiring at age 55 and author of “Is Your Way In Your Way?”.
Connect with Cassandra at www.cassandracrawley.com and on Instagram @cassandra_crawleymayo
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How Energy Work Can Bring Healing in Midlife with Laurin Wittig
As I progress into my midlife years, I’ve come to its more than a list of symptoms to be cured or endured, it’s a transformation. There is beautiful wisdom honed by midlife women, this wisdom can bring clarity, joy and purpose. Getting to that point of understanding can be a journey in itself, a journey that I’ve been navigating for a couple of years now.
It hasn’t been easy because our modern way of living has created a divide between our physical and spiritual selves. This is our opportunity to open the conversation and bring midlife women into this circle of wisdom so that together we can create a clearer path for ourselves and for those yet to enter their midlife years.
In this episode, I'm chatting with Laurin Wittig, an intuitive healer and mentor, the founder of the Heartlight Wise Women Circles, and an award-winning novelist.
Connect with Laurin at www.heartlightjoy.com and on Instagram @heartlightjoy
The Curiously Wise podcast is available on Apple Podcasts.
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How to Energy Work Can Bring Healing in Midlife with Laurin Wittig
As I progress into my midlife years, I’ve come to its more than a list of symptoms to be cured or endured, it’s a transformation. There is beautiful wisdom honed by midlife women, this wisdom can bring clarity, joy and purpose. Getting to that point of understanding can be a journey in itself, a journey that I’ve been navigating for a couple of years now.
It hasn’t been easy because our modern way of living has created a divide between our physical and spiritual selves. This is our opportunity to open the conversation and bring midlife women into this circle of wisdom so that together we can create a clearer path for ourselves and for those yet to enter their midlife years.
In this episode, I'm chatting with Laurin Wittig, an intuitive healer and mentor, the founder of the Heartlight Wise Women Circles, and an award-winning novelist.
Connect with Laurin at www.heartlightjoy.com and on Instagram @heartlightjoy
The Curiously Wise podcast is available on Apple Podcasts.
To grab your copy of Your Journaling Journey search for it on Amazon or with these links:
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Find your Calm in the Chaos with my FREE 7-day Kick Start Journal https://www.therollercoasterpodcast.com/midlifemomjournal
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