Why You’re The One Who Needs to Change

One of the most common questions I hear is, “Why do I have to be the one to change?”

Here’s the truth: because that’s the only thing you can control.

When you focus on your spouse, you put yourself in a passive position—waiting, hoping, or demanding that they do something different. But you can’t change them.

What you can change are the three things you have full control over:

What you think

What you feel

How you behave

Those choices shape the atmosphere of your marriage. They influence your spouse more than nagging or blame ever could.

So what are you waiting for? Growth starts with you. And when you change the way you show up, the relationship changes too.

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