351 Relationships #1: Let Go

Philippians 3:13-14 (NIV): I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead;

Paul is pointing out something that we need to learn in building relationships:
You cannot relate to the present if you are still reacting to the past. If you bring too many unresolved problems into current relationships, it will stifle them.