3 years ago

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Insecurities on the Dance Floor?

I am not good enough
I will never be as good as X person

How to deal with your insecurities?
1.Why I made this video? TO discuss Insecurities
This is something we all deal with in all facets of our lives. I will tailor this to the dancing scene.
2. I have often found myself thinking:
I am not good enough
I will never be as good as X person
3. How I would aim to resolve these issues: Ask yourself what is In your control? What do you have power over? Your Actions.
Also understand that comparison is the thief of joy.

I would also like to say that, your insecurities are something you will always deal with. But as you become more confident and as you put the time and effort into your craft, you build up this level of trust & confidence within yourself. And I also think you start to build this sense of abudance mentality versus scarcity.
For me I had this sense of scarcity mindset, thinking

The more you do this, the better you become, and the more positive experiences you can draw upon. As a beginner, you may not have as many positive experiences to remember and think about. But after you reach a certain level of skill you can understand that and comprehend that just because this one person may not enjoy dancing with you does not mean someone else wont. You have experienced it firsthand.
To sum this video up: YOU will always deal with your insecurities. I deal with them now on the dance floor. But as with anything in life, the better you become at this skill the more confidence you have in yourself. The more trust you have in your capabilities.

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